Store run

[Jack Frost]

My wife goes to the grocery store but always ends up taking 2 hours when it should take no more than an hour ,she always says she forgot something and has to make a quick dash to the store should I be worried? 

[Gebidozo]

Worried about what, exactly?

[Jack Frost]

2 hours ago, Gebidozo said:

Worried about what, exactly?

Maybe she has a side piece, just a thought 

[Gebidozo]

1 hour ago, Jack Frost said:

Maybe she has a side piece, just a thought 

You suspect your wife of cheating because she spends a lot of time in the grocery store?

Did she do something in the past that would make you mistrust her like this now?

[LAspen]

This is a red flag. Follow her or ask someone you trust completely to follow her. But it needs to be done very carefully so that she doesn't figure it out. If you have the money, hire a PI.
I also advise you to snoop through her phone.

[LAspen]

Also, always remember the following.
Taking care of your safety is never humiliating. 
Anyone in a relationship has the right to suspect their partner of infidelity. Period.
Anyone who suspects a partner of infidelity has the right to find out the truth in all ways permitted by law. Period.
When finding out the truth, a person should be limited by their own moral attitudes (besides law), and not by the moral attitudes of their partner and others. Period.
It's an obvious statement, someone who doesn't accept it lives in a fairy tale, not in the real world. Or they're being hypocritical.

[Jack Frost]

1 hour ago, Gebidozo said:

You suspect your wife of cheating because she spends a lot of time in the grocery store?

Did she do something in the past that would make you mistrust her like this now?

She spends alot of time on the phone even sits in the car for about 10 minutes when she gets home 

[Jack Frost]

1 hour ago, LAspen said:

This is a red flag. Follow her or ask someone you trust completely to follow her. But it needs to be done very carefully so that she doesn't figure it out. If you have the money, hire a PI.
I also advise you to snoop through her phone.

Thanks alot sure will look into a P.I 

[Gebidozo]

1 hour ago, Jack Frost said:

She spends alot of time on the phone even sits in the car for about 10 minutes when she gets home 

If you mistrust her so much that you suspect her of cheating because she has her private life and talks to people on the phone, maybe you should just divorce her.

You should either trust your partner, or not be with that partner.

 

[Els]

If you feel the need to obsess over your partner spending 2 hours in the store or 10 minutes on the phone, something is horrifically wrong with either the relationship or you (or both).

Edited 13 hours ago by Els

[Sony12]

Many women like to shop and to talk on the phone. Unless you know she is always talking to another guy it doesn't really mean much at all.

[S2B]

9 hours ago, Jack Frost said:

She spends alot of time on the phone even sits in the car for about 10 minutes when she gets home 

Put a voice activated recorder under her car seat. Retrieve it and see who she talks to and what she says.

[Lotsgoingon]

What does she say she's doing?

Also, there are people who don't like to take time alone or don't know how to ask their partner not to bother them for an hour or two. And some of these folks will use errands to get their totally alone time. 

I'm not dismissing your worry. I'm just suggesting another possible angle on your partner's behavior. 

[MsJayne]

Is she a talker? My ex-partner could go to the shop and come back two hours later, 5 minutes to drive to and from the shop and 5 mins in the store, and the rest of the time striking up conversations with anyone who has ears and the time of day. Next time she says she forgot something tell her you have to go to the store and you'll pick up whatever she forgot, or say you're going with her, and gauge her reaction. Or wait until she's in the shower and check her 'phone, or buy a tracker that you can install on her car, or, last resort, confront her and ask her why she spends so much time at the store. 

Edited 1 hour ago by MsJayne