Roarz Posted January 16, 2006 Posted January 16, 2006 I found out today from a friend that my ex gf has a new boyfriend now and now I feel like I am at stage 1 all over again. It makes me feel like its a race to find someone new and she won or something. And that this new guy is miles better than me. Maybe it's just because this really means it's over and I'll never get her back. When I first heard it (online) I just started crying uncontrollably for about 30 minutes but then I kind of snapped out of it, but I still have this huge pit in my heart. Feels like she was the only one I will ever find to love and I never will again, even though I know that's stupid. I definately know I'm not the only one to have this happen to them, how are you guys coping with it?
bigbrowneyes Posted January 16, 2006 Posted January 16, 2006 Feeling your pain Roarz. I've known since Christmas that my xbf has a new serious relationship. It was extremely painful to hear that information...he felt an urgent need to email me this update. My mind is constantly consumed with thoughts of him wining and dining his new love...doing wonderful things for her and making her feel special. Athough I dumped him because of his constant infidelity, I still feel like I'll never love again. And to make matters worse, I'm hurt that he found love so quickly and I'm still grieving. Crazy isn't it??? Hang in there. Months from now we won't even remember this feeling. Take care.
riobikini Posted January 16, 2006 Posted January 16, 2006 Roarz, Here's a couple of links to posts I've recently written that may help you some: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=666271&postcount=1 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=671950&postcount=28 I know you are hurting right now and it doesn't feel as if it's ever going to go away. But a lot of people have been exactly where you are, -me included. Please stay in the forum and post as you feel you need to. And here's a hug: It will get better, -promise. (Smile) -Rio
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