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Can someone tell me if I need to leave my relationship. Be brutally honest on if I'm crazy.

whathappenstomenow

By whathappenstomenow
in Cheating, Flirting, and Jealousy

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Acacia98 Established Member

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On 9/14/2025 at 9:20 AM, whathappenstomenow said:

I actually don't want to be here anymore. I feel hopelessly attached to this woman like I cannot get away but she continuously abuses and tortures me. I feel like I don't have the strength to leave and I don't know why. I am in hell. She lies, she's deceptive, she's selfish, she doesn't care about me, she does things to me I wouldnt ever do to her and she does things to me she knows she wouldn't like if the roles were reversed and I did to her.

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 After about 5 years of abuse back and forth with the mother of my child she left. And I BEGGED for like 3 months for her to come back. And she never did.

I am never going to get out of this. And knowing that takes away my will to live.

I've been waiting for you to say this. I'm glad you finally acknowledged it: she does things to me I wouldnt ever do to her and she does things to me she knows she wouldn't like if the roles were reversed and I did to her.

You understand that you're admitting that she knows that what she's doing is wrong? So why have you been arguing with her and wasting your energy trying to get her to see reason? Do you now see why I'm telling you to let her do what she wants to do? She knows right from wrong. She knows, OP. And you need to get into therapy. You also need to learn the art of grey rock (look it up). Stop getting drawn into pointless drama.

Also, please clarify for us where your child currently is and if you're actively involved in his/her life.

S2B Established Member

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You have a child? How old and what gender?

is the child’s mother the gal you’ve been seeing now?

LoveAndPassports New Member

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No single man will respect a guy asking his girl to cut off friendships for the health of a relationship...because he isn't in a relationship. It makes you seem worried about him, which is his clue that she may actually be attracted to him. It gave him the green light, in other words. So, now he's just waiting you out...

Do you trust your GF? 

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