Long distance textationship

[Anonymous]

I met this guy from the US in my hometown (I live in Europe) a year ago in a bar. We only talk via dm and it's not very consistent maybe every 2-3 weeks or so. He has said throughout the year he plans/hopes to return that he has sabbatical at the end of the year (vague) he has said he wanted to come back in spring to 'check out his options' I grew tired so I unfollowed him in May only to get a DM a week later saying 'I'm planning a trip across the pond in july' I responded enthusiastically he gave vague dates but said he would have definite ones sooner and was looking at places to stay. A few days later he unfollowed me, he knew my birthday was coming up and a few weeks later wishing me a happy birthday and to enjoy my party that it was looking like August now for him coming to visit. Neither of us said anything about the unfollowings. 7 weeks past hadn't heard from him so I stupidly decided to follow him again he followed back immediately. I asked did he unfollow me which responded 'absolutely not' he didn't ask the same just wanted to avoid it. He said he had yet to take his sabbatical and 'hoped' to visit this fall... No dates set. Havnt heard from him in a week but he's liking all my pics again. What do you guys think be brutally honest

[basil67]

Brutally honest?   It sounds like a complete waste of time.