soultapp2006 Posted January 15, 2006 Posted January 15, 2006 Ok, I've been talking to this guy I met on a online chat room. We talk on the reguar on yahoo chat. We even talked once on the phone. But, he seems to play these silly get to you games. He says I can ask him anything. But when I do, he get evasive and tries to change the subject. So i'm not sure if her has something to hide. Or doesn't want to get to deep. He's in the service and is supposly overseas. (i've seen pics) He's from Atlanta. And I was already planning to move there in September of this year. So because he's from there, I was even more interested in meeting him. But im not sure if I still want to meet him. He appears to be emotionally immature. He says things like, "why would I try to get involve with someone I meet online". So I listened to that. He could be saying how he really feels. Or he could be testing me, to see what I would say. But who has the time to play those kind of games. So like I said, I get it, but I don't want to. He's just so freaking cute. But still, I would say to follow your gut in any situation.
EMJ Posted January 15, 2006 Posted January 15, 2006 Or has a live in girlfriend. He's playing this game because YOU are playing too. The evasiveness, changing the subject, etc. sounds like he has a lot to hide. This is not a relationship. It's online flirting and that's not real at all. Check you gut girl, what's it telling you?
Sinfuldelight Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 Ok, I've been talking to this guy I met on a online chat room. We talk on the reguar on yahoo chat. We even talked once on the phone. But, he seems to play these silly get to you games. He says I can ask him anything. But when I do, he get evasive and tries to change the subject. So i'm not sure if her has something to hide. Or doesn't want to get to deep. He's in the service and is supposly overseas. (i've seen pics) He's from Atlanta. And I was already planning to move there in September of this year. So because he's from there, I was even more interested in meeting him. But im not sure if I still want to meet him. He appears to be emotionally immature. He says things like, "why would I try to get involve with someone I meet online". So I listened to that. He could be saying how he really feels. Or he could be testing me, to see what I would say. But who has the time to play those kind of games. So like I said, I get it, but I don't want to. He's just so freaking cute. But still, I would say to follow your gut in any situation. Run, run now. It will lead to nowhere. Trust me, I know from previous experience. Best to keep on trotting ahead and finding someone else. Good luck.
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