Throwawaywife Posted August 29 Posted August 29 (edited) A few months ago I posted about my husband messaging young women online and the excuse was that they were catfish and he was just playing a game. This week he had an event at work- we were all dressed up, etc. His bio was posted on a digital screen, mentioning that he loves spending time with his kids and dogs. No mention of a wife. Kids listed by number of daughters and sons, including those I brought to the marriage. Dogs were listed by name. I’m not mentioned. He said he didn’t write the bio. That same night I saw that he was messaging another women the age of our young adult kids on facebook. She said, “It’s nice to be friends, I’m not sure I know you, but I look forward to a conversation” he said, “it’s nice to be friends as well, sorry it took me so long to respond.” whatever occurred before that seems to have been deleted. I think he reached out to her and asked for a conversation. He claims he was just trying to find out if she was a real person because it looked like an old friend his had been hacked. this is the third time.. the charm. I knew it would happen again, just not so soon. I told him I would divorce him if he didn’t delete his facebook. He did. I know if he wants to keep doing that he will find a way. I don’t want to be divorced again. But I can hardly stand him and my mental health is fried. To make it worse, he yells at me when I bring it up and is mad that I don’t believe him. I might just accept that I married a dirty old man and it sucks because he was so kind and respectful before we were married. I feel like a stupid old fool. I’m 47 and he’s 52. These women he says are all fake are 20-35. We’ve been together 4years, married for 3. Edited August 29 by Throwawaywife Adding length of marriage for context
BaileyB Posted August 29 Posted August 29 I’m sorry. This is really hard. 21 minutes ago, Throwawaywife said: I don’t want to be divorced again. But I can hardly stand him and my mental health is fried. To make it worse, he yells at me when I bring it up and is mad that I don’t believe him. You don’t believe him because his excuses are nonsensical.
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