Left out of his work bio

[Throwawaywife]

A few months ago I posted about my husband messaging young women online and the excuse was that they were catfish and he was just playing a game.

This week he had an event at work- we were all dressed up, etc. His bio was posted on a digital screen, mentioning that he loves spending time with his kids and dogs. No mention of a wife. Kids listed by number of daughters and sons, including those I brought to the marriage. Dogs were listed by name. I’m not mentioned. He said he didn’t write the bio.

That same night I saw that he was messaging another women the age of our young adult kids on facebook. She said, “It’s nice to be friends, I’m not sure I know you, but I look forward to a conversation”

he said, “it’s nice to be friends as well, sorry it took me so long to respond.”

whatever occurred before that seems to have been deleted. I think he reached out to her and asked for a conversation. He claims he was just trying to find out if she was a real person because it looked like an old friend his had been hacked.

this is the third time.. the charm. I knew it would happen again, just not so soon. I told him I would divorce him if he didn’t delete his facebook. He did. I know if he wants to keep doing that he will find a way. 
 

I don’t want to be divorced again. But I can hardly stand him and my mental health is fried. To make it worse, he yells at me when I bring it up and is mad that I don’t believe him. 
 

I might just accept that I married a dirty old man and it sucks because he was so kind and respectful before we were married. I feel like a stupid old fool. I’m 47 and he’s 52. These women he says are all fake are 20-35. We’ve been together 4years, married for 3. 

 

Edited August 29 by Throwawaywife
Adding length of marriage for context

[BaileyB]

I’m sorry. This is really hard.
 

21 minutes ago, Throwawaywife said:

I don’t want to be divorced again. But I can hardly stand him and my mental health is fried. To make it worse, he yells at me when I bring it up and is mad that I don’t believe him. 

You don’t believe him because his excuses are nonsensical.