maleea27 Posted January 15, 2006 Posted January 15, 2006 my boyfriend and i have been talking 4 two and a half years now. He is a full time student in college and has a job but what about me? no phone call no nothing. He has changed alot over this year. He says he loves me but I dont believe him. I really do love him. He is my first at everything and i wannna know what is going on but he says nothing so. what should I do about this relationship? Please help me...
whichwayisup Posted January 15, 2006 Posted January 15, 2006 I take it he's away and it's a long distance relationship? So, he barely calls or sees you, he doesn't open up how he feels (yet he says he loves you, but his actions show otherwise) when you ask what's going on...He is your 'first' everything. From what you've mentioned in your post, my feeling is he just doesn't know how to end it with you. If he wanted to keep intouch more, he would. And he isn't. I'm sorry, I don't mean to come off harsh or blunt but from where I sit the relationship may be coming close to end, if not already. Sometimes life gets in the way and people grow apart. That doesn't mean he doesn't love you, I'm sure he does, but not the kind of love that keeps a relationship going forever. Be honest with him, ask him if he stills wants to be with you. Not knowing is worse, atleast if you know for sure you can grieve and heal, then go on...
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