I think I blew it

[adagabby]

I've been talking with a girl I met in a festival through a mutual friend. We added each other on Instagram, I sent her a message when she replied very enthusiastically. Anyway, I asked her for a date but she had a trip on this week( and said we could go out later). We kept talking daily, but her replies started to get more sparse (like once a day) and I tried to do the same. She then asked me if I wanted to grab some drinks, and gave me 2 days of the week as options. Very well, I accepted, but as I see now, I wasn't very assertive. I said something like "Friday seems nice" and after this asked if she liked to swim lol, as a completely unrelated question. I also asked if she liked music.

Anyway, she replied saying that she likes music and only sociopaths don't like it and asked me why I asked about swimming.

I think I have the tendency of talking and also writing too much, and maybe of also always making lame jokes. (I can send the exact messages in private for interested parties)

Anyway, after this, she didn't reply me, and after 2 days, I sent a follow up message "Hey, ___. Is x day still on?" and she replied saying that she forgot she had an event to go with her friends, and invited me along. I don't know if I should interpret this as a kind of soft rejection. She also didn't reply me previous questions, so maybe she doesn't like small talk? Anyway, what are your thoughts about it?