elle_nana Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 So here's the raw deal: I met a guy at a party about 2 months ago. I actually liked him, then, but at that time we probably spoke for 15 minutes maximum, he left the party, i left the party and we didnt exchange contacts. I then managed to add him to my friends on this online community (hi5, like myspace) and he contacted me two weeks ago asking for my number. We have had two GREAT dates so far. My guy is very well-off in comparison to me, he has a car, i dont. He has an apartment, i dont. His apartment is soooooo posh: everything is computerised ( going in an out of the apartment), his room is ultra clean, he has a walkin closet with 4 times as many clothes and shoes as I do. He also travels a lot, and spends loads of money when he goe out. My only concern is that we may have a "class" difference which might come in the way. I mean, everything is going great, but my only concern is how a relationship would work with him ging on all these holidays and me not affording it. I feel like i wont be able to keep up with that aspect of his lifestyle. I am in college at the moment, so I live a very 'limited' life. I only have a room to myself, and i share bathrooms ...etc etc.... and I compare all of this to what he has; and it makes me scared. I wouldnt want to give up on something good for a silly reason, but at the same time I wouldnt want to hold onto someone who's clearly not in my league....should i just end things off to avoid being hurt?
Gator762 Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 If he likes you, league will not be a concern. Just let him know what you can and cannot afford. When you want to do something, just bring up what you can afford, and then let him make the decisions on what he wants to do with you. If he's a decent guy, he should understand that you are in college, and are not making a lot of money right now. Good luck, hope everything works out well!
Lucasarts Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 class difference? psh only the parents care not the lovers i dated a girl who was LOADED and i got front row seats to any and every football, basketball, hockey game...which made for some great and entertaining dates i ended up breaking it off with her b/c she was getting too possessive and that isnt healthy or good you know? its just a matter of chemistry, and its good to have somebody thats taking care of themselves, and not being totally dependent on you all the time.
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