whyisshe acting differently now when we go out (I think is good for the two of us)?

[Amtguy]

We planed on a group activity with our classmates, but she pulled the plug on that the day before; instead she called the next tat to arrange a get together at the gym we go to. We’ve gone there together before but this time was different. I made sure it was later in the day and at that I drove to her so ans not to be a burden.  Afterwards I asked if she wanted to do anything before I left and she agreed to dinner. 

This is where her behavior was different. She told me that I was making  an attempt to look better around her (referring to shirt I bought when we last went out). And when I asked if that was ok she told me yes and that I did look nice. Then at dinner when we where talking she let me briefly mention our relationship (we are not dating but she knows I’m interested in her); a calculated risk because she has call us going out “dats” but she not looking for relationships. By the time we left Igor feet was tuching (something that she normally will not put up with, and the second time this week we have gotten that close to each other).

When I got home I thanked her for buying dinner, and that I had a great time. And she stayed that she can now say she enjoyed going to the gym with me.

now I know we’re friends. I also know she has only dated people she firs coincided friends, so patience will be key if I ever want to have a chance at a relationship

. But what I want to know is why the difference in her sudden demeanor being more open, talking to her friends about me and concern with my well being?

[Gebidozo]

Is this still the same girl who told you she didn’t want a romantic relationship with you and didn’t like it when you attempted to touch her?

Dude, when are you going to let it go? She isn’t interested in you romantically and never will be.

Why are you desperately clinging to some completely insignificant details in an attempt to artificially inflate her level of interest in your mind?

Stop disrespecting yourself and wasting time and emotional effort on this, find a girl who likes you back and date her.