nisha Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 hiya everyone! im in a big mess..becuase i dont know what to do! my friend likes me a lot..n first i didnt think so..but i think i do now! and thre only thing is that hes not attractive but his personality is really nice!!! pls somone just tell me!! DO LOOKS MATTER?? i dont find him attactive but.....hes so sweet! and also..how do i know if i like him? when he told me ONLINE i said no, then i texted him saying i did...then i phoned him saying i didnt!! im confused but i think about him quite a lot..and i want him to talk to me..and want his attention...what the diff between wanting him..n wanting his atteneion?? i miss him too... help me pls.. nisha xx
whichwayisup Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 Forget looks...DO you feel any chemistry? Could you feel it if you gave him a chance? Not all relationships start off with huge attractions...Sometimes it just happens and builds in time. Do you also have any feelings of emotional attachment for him? If you really are into him the looks won't matter much. It's what is inside his heart and in his personality that count. Hope that helps abit.
EMJ Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 ...and that's ok. If you aren't stongly attracted to him just leave him alone. It doesn't look like you care enough about him to make this a postive situation. Dont' respond to him that way unless you really know in your heart that you could be with him. It's cruel to use someone like that because you are bored, lonely or flattered. Only selfish bitches do that. Beautiful or not, he does not deserve to be played with emotionally. No one does. Don't lead him on-it's just selfish and mean spirited in the end.
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