kjo314 Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 Guys/Gals, Just ogt out of a serious relationship 3 months ago and I don't know anymore how to meet women.. I can't believe how incredibly shy I am to tlak to people... I see women I would like to ask out but I just can't even get up enough courage to ask them out. It might have to do with the past but I doubt it.. I think I am pretty much over that realtionship. It was a black mark on me for a bit but I have used it to my advantage.... Anyways if any of you have any suggestions on hwo to get a girls to talk toyou or how to "flirt" with women or ask them for there numebr or something let me know.
Gator762 Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 Well, I'm no expert, as I just got back to being single myself. I've just started practicing at it as well. What seems to work best is just a hello or hi with a sincere smile. I don't even go for the cheesy lines. Going straight off with even a genuine compliment seems to either get me too nervous, or turn them off to me. First just try to talk some small chit chat - some everyday subject common to everyone, like work, if that's where they are at. If you can't get some small talk going, then you're doomed. If there any events where you work, go. Pratice small talk even with guys - you're not trying to pick them up, so you're just trying to converse with another human being with no pressure. Do you have social events with people at work? You can also try to pick up some new sociable hobbies. I'm working at it myself too!
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