guide me por favor. should i reach out?

[basil67]

2 hours ago, coconutcoast said:

I honestly don't know what makes that statement "weird", hearing that from him would just show me how much emotion/care this person has actually invested into me. Them being vulnerable enough to tell me that is beautiful. 

Vulnerable is good in a solid relationship.   But if an ex (or someone who was breaking up with me) said that, I'd roll my eyes.   It's all too dramatic for me

[ExpatInItaly]

5 hours ago, basil67 said:

  But if an ex (or someone who was breaking up with me) said that, I'd roll my eyes.   It's all too dramatic for me

Yes, I agree. 

It's too much. But, it further underlines the point that this was really not a match, OP, You two aren't suited to each other and he didn't care the way you wanted him to 

 

[introverted1]

On 8/21/2025 at 5:26 PM, coconutcoast said:

would you reach out to your gf after she categorizes you as someone that's affecting her mental health? & refers to you as terrifying?

I wouldn't reach out to someone who posted stories/memes rather than talk to me directly. I'd find it childish and passive aggressive and it would only make me more convinced that the breakup was the right move.