I found out my fiance is flirting with other men at work , what should i do ?

[ticaaa]

8 minutes ago, Gaeta said:

So, she started that behavior recently? She never done that before?

no  , if she did i didnt see it , when she is with me she jokes but only verbally and nothing sexual

[Gaeta]

1 hour ago, ticaaa said:

no  , if she did i didnt see it , when she is with me she jokes but only verbally and nothing sexual

So, if she was not like that before with her male colleagues, and she's been like that only recently....why wouldn't she be able to go back to being a non-flirty colleague? Her excuse she would need to change job does not hold the road.

I'm thinking she's interested in one particular colleague. 

 

[ticaaa]

19 minutes ago, Gaeta said:

So, if she was not like that before with her male colleagues, and she's been like that only recently....why wouldn't she be able to go back to being a non-flirty colleague? Her excuse she would need to change job does not hold the road.

I'm thinking she's interested in one particular colleague. 

 

i dont think so because like i wrote in previous message she was flirting with another guy too

she kept walking in front of him and stopped suddenly to make him bump into her , she did this 2 times and the guy grabbed her and started playfighting

[Gaeta]

Well....you decide if this is ok with you. Some couples can tolerate a bit of flirtiness, others don't. You decide, for yourself, what is acceptable and up to what point. I am in a relationship and l will give an occasional compliment to my male colleagues. I would never EVER play, touch, or let a man touch me. I respect my boyfriend and our relationship too much for that. I am ok with my boyfriend uplifting someone with a compliment but if l learn he put his hand on a colleagues leg....all hell would break loose.

The important thing is for you to not break your personal moral rule to be with someone. 

Also, don't put your head in the sand then you'll be back with a thread....gf cheated on me and l didn't see it coming.

[swt]

goodness gracious brother, just break up at that point.

[CollinW]

IMO women, who have been dealing with flirtatious males ever since puberty, know exactly what they're doing in these situation. Never do they flirt, particularly at work, not understanding their actions or how it's coming across. 

Women that act like this tend to be attention craved, which are some of the worse women to be in relationships with as there are no boundaries they'll cross when they feel that thirst. Particularly when they come across a man they find irresistible. She's doing this with some shlep at work, imagine when she's at a bar and comes across a tall Chad. 

With that said there are women who perfect the art of the work flirt, who use an extroverted, outgoing personality to get superiors to take notice and thrive. This isn't that situation.