Anonymous Posted August 12 Posted August 12 Hi. I’m a 53 year old hard working blue collar guy in yet another bad marriage. This is number 3 and the last one. I have shad a knack for choosing women with mental, emotional and sometimes physical problems. I guess I’ve always been the rescue the damsel in distress kind of guy. I’m on the verge of divorce and am just so tired of drama and negativity. I guess I deserve it as I’m the one whom keeps putting myself in this situation. But I’ve finally learned and figured it out. It’s time I fix my life and myself. I’ve been having an affair with someone with whom I think I’m in love with and whom is in love with me. I won’t get married again but will properly date her when I file for divorce and leave. Guys, who else has experienced or is experiencing this?
Gebidozo Posted August 12 Posted August 12 Well, I’m an almost 50 year old guy and I have 3 failed marriages behind me. My last divorce was when I was in my late 30’s. I had a long-term relationship after that and now I’m in another long-term relationship. I don’t know anything about you or your exes. Speaking only for myself, I definitely know now that those failures were mainly caused by my own issues.
Topher1972 Posted August 12 Posted August 12 4 minutes ago, Gebidozo said: Well, I’m an almost 50 year old guy and I have 3 failed marriages behind me. My last divorce was when I was in my late 30’s. I had a long-term relationship after that and now I’m in another long-term relationship. I don’t know anything about you or your exes. Speaking only for myself, I definitely know now that those failures were mainly caused by my own issues. Thanks for the input brother. I can see clearly now and admit that my own issues are why I’m going through this again. I was warned by my whole platoon the first time and other friends the 2nd. This is the 3rd and last time. I do however look forward to a long term relationship in the future.
longdue Posted August 14 Posted August 14 Maybe it’s not so much about “protecting” the damsel in distress as it is gravitating toward women who are more easily accessible — and those often happen to come with their own set of challenges.
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