What could be behind this behavior?

[Gina2005]

Hello all.

Lately, because I have been doing too much at work and I just don't have that much energy to go out at night, I have been expending more time at my BFS place during the weekend, instead of going out, we just order food, watch a movie or two,  have sex at some point during the evening, and I fall sleep if it the movie is particularly slow, maybe I wake up, maybe I don't till next morning, it's not like we planned I was gonna be staying at his place for the night, but it has happened, twice, he has joked that I should just go to his place wearing pajamas, and has already gave me a toothbrush.

Sometimes, people from his workplace call or message him (they work from Monday to Sunday 24/7), so, there is always someone working, not my boyfriend, but somebody from his crew, maybe a machine broke down, or a computer  is not working, or somebody doesn't know what button to push to do whatever, he normally answers, gives them a solution if possible, or tells them who to call or just that he would look into it the next day.

So, anyway,  this morning, he was taking a shower while his phone was charging, it rang, he asked me to see who it was, I look at the phone, it's a woman's name, I tell him who it is, he asks me to answer the phone and tell her he is in the shower but that he'll take the call shortly, because it may be an emergency.

So, I answer the phone, I say "Hello", and she replies with "oh s***, sorry"  and then she just hangs up.

He asks me what did she said, and I tell him "shes said "sorry" and hung up", he replies with "WTF?".

So, he gets out of the shower, calls her, she apologizes again, he asks her what does she need (somebody went to work intoxicated or something), he tells her what to do, and hangs up.

I ask him why did she apologized for, and he tells me, "I have no idea what's on that woman head sometimes, probably she thought she got me in trouble for calling".

So, what does all of this sound to you? Or is she like, trying to generate some tension between us?

Or did she genuinely though the proper course of action would be to apologize if a woman and not her boss answers the phone?

[smackie9]

He told you to answer the call......he's got nothing to hide and you are just being paranoid. 

[Gina2005]

11 minutes ago, smackie9 said:

He told you to answer the call......he's got nothing to hide and you are just being paranoid. 

I'm talking about her behavior, not my BFs.

[basil67]

We can't tell you what she was thinking.   But perhaps you could tell us why you think she may be up to mischief

Edited Sunday at 10:09 PM by basil67

[smackie9]

2 hours ago, Gina2005 said:

I'm talking about her behavior, not my BFs.

He's a big boy, he can handle himself if trouble arises.  

[MsJayne]

I wouldn't worry about it, he obviously isn't. 

[Gebidozo]

What made you think she tried to generate tension between you and your BF?

I hope you didn’t share that suspicion with your BF.

In any case, what’s important is his behavior, not hers.

[ExpatInItaly]

11 hours ago, Gina2005 said:

Or is she like, trying to generate some tension between us?

Or did she genuinely though the proper course of action would be to apologize if a woman and not her boss answers the phone?

How would we know? 

[ShyViolet]

Are you asking because you're a little concerned that there could be something going on between them?

[Acacia98]

It doesn't sound strange to me. Think of how she might react if she walked into the boss's office and thought she interrupted a moment between him and you. Her immediate reaction would probably be to say, "Oh, sh**! Sorry!" From her perspective, it's not that different from the phone call, is it?