fooled Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 Last night, a friend of mine called. He told me that after he informed a group of other friends, colleagues, acquaintences about my break-up, they were relieved!! Turns out she had tried to sleep with a lot of them, too! She told them that she and I had broken up and she wanted each of them (individually) to be her boyfriend! Thankfully, they didn't take her up on it as they knew it was bulls*** and that we were still "together." It hurt a lot last night, but this morning I have a strange calm. I know for certain that her behavior had NOTHING to do with me. Knowing that I wasn't special to her AT ALL really makes it easier for me to detach. I don't feel any longing for her - or affection for her. I don't miss her or our time together. Just thankful that I'm no longer wasting time and energy on this wicked person. Thankful that I am finally free to find someone decent.
UT_longhorn Posted January 15, 2006 Posted January 15, 2006 fooled good for you man. its the new year and its time to cut the fat from our lives. althought you might be numb to the pain right now be prepared for some in the coming few days/weeks. you have to grieve or your healing process is just going take longer. but best of luck to you man.
Author fooled Posted January 15, 2006 Author Posted January 15, 2006 Oh, I've been grieving allllll week.
bluetuesday Posted January 15, 2006 Posted January 15, 2006 Knowing that I wasn't special to her AT ALL really makes it easier for me to detach. I don't feel any longing for her - or affection for her. I don't miss her or our time together. Just thankful that I'm no longer wasting time and energy on this wicked person. Thankful that I am finally free to find someone decent. this is fantastic stuff! THIS is the lesson every devastated soul on the receiving end of a broken heart needs to learn. that the f***wits who lied or cheated (or tried to) or didn't love us, never deserved us anyway. the loss lessens dramatically with this realisation. loveshack is sadly littered with souls who have not learned this lesson. good for you for choosing not to be one of them.
witabix Posted January 15, 2006 Posted January 15, 2006 Definately so, don't spare another thought. Let us board this train to the future together......
Author fooled Posted January 15, 2006 Author Posted January 15, 2006 Don't get me wrong - I'm still hurt - and will start seeing a therapist to sort through the trauma - but it's so freeing to know that this sicko has nothing to offer me!
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