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Is any attraction to another person "bad"?


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6 hours ago, OmoiYari said:

I just spoke to him once

Wait, what? 

On 7/29/2025 at 11:06 PM, OmoiYari said:

makes me wonder if I'd lose an incredible experience on multiple levels, which would start from the physical one and reach all the possible other ones.

All of this for someone you have met once? Girl. What is going on with you and your marriage that a one-time meeting has you spinning a  fantasy like this about someone you basically don't know? 

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1 minute ago, ExpatInItaly said:

Wait, what? 

All of this for someone you have met once? Girl. What is going on with you and your marriage that a one-time meeting has you spinning a  fantasy like this about someone you basically don't know? 

I didn't meet him once. I spoke to him once. Ever heard of "love at first sight"? And I'm not even speaking about love here. 

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1 minute ago, OmoiYari said:

 Ever heard of "love at first sight"? 

Yes, and I think iit's hogwash. 

1 minute ago, OmoiYari said:

I didn't meet him once. I spoke to him once.

Now I am confused. How did you look into his eyes if you haven't met him? 

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What was the context in which you spoke to this guy? How long did you two speak to one another? Was it a lengthy conversation or just a couple words?

Generally in these situations you just build these people up in your mind to the point you don't actually like the real person. You just like the imaginary character you have developed in your head.

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