Hellfire Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 How do you show someone what love is like? I mean truely. The girl I like is going out with a guy, and I know she believes in love, but she just has never felt it for anyone, and has probably never had anyone feel that way for her!! I want her so bad. I want to be with her. I wanted to be with her before, but it angers me now, that she is going out with a guy, and I was to puss to freakin move on anything. Im very shy, and im not good at expressing ALOT of stuff, but I know well what love is like, and I want to show it to her. How do I do this with a guy there? Dont say I shouldnt move, because jeeze I was there well before him, and he cant be up to any good seeing as how he's 19. I think she's just confused, because a friend of mine, and hers. Told me that she said she was scared, and confused. Im sure this means that she knows im a good guy, and that she is afraid of what a good guy can show her...
ddnnee Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 nah man, i think you are in the "friends zone". Sorry. If it were me, and a girl i like dated another guy, then she's striked off the list.
whichwayisup Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 But doesn't her sister like you? Isn't that part of the reason why she is going out with you? If that is the case, chances are not good because she is fully aware that her sis likes ya. She isn't going to do anything that will upset the situation. I know you like her, but pining for someone who really isn't into you WILL hurt you more.
Author Hellfire Posted January 14, 2006 Author Posted January 14, 2006 which way, do you have aim, msn, or yahoo??
whichwayisup Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 Once you reach the 50+ post count mark or when your private messaging option is turned on here, I can help you out through PM's here on loveshack. Because you're new here and have a low post count, the PM option isn't available to you yet. Start posting and replying to threads to get your count up.
cygny Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 nah man, i think you are in the "friends zone". Sorry. If it were me, and a girl i like dated another guy, then she's striked off the list. if you are a guy and haven't made a move then how can you expect her not to date another guy who has made a move? come on, you can't be serious.
cygny Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 hellfire--the way you can do it is to say things like, "you have a boyfriend, don't you? damn, guess i can't make a move on you then." make sure you say like it is a joke and laugh. don't let her know that you have these intense feelings, only that you've noticed her and like her, in a more lighthearted way.
Author Hellfire Posted January 14, 2006 Author Posted January 14, 2006 She knows I like her. I was talking to her sister, and yea she told me that she dosent really have boyfriend. She just got her to tell me that! So I myself consider myself....to be good with some physcological stuff, and I just think she's afraid. Plus her sister told me she thought I was obsessed. Which I guess I am.....
HookedOnHim Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 hellfire, well youve answered my question if there were still guys out there like you....im dating a guy that well when we first met maybe he thought i was a quicky...... but that was a year ago..... now we have dated for a year... and havent had sex.... he calles me his gf in certain instances and asks me to go with him to every type of party...ive met his whole family, we've spent the holidays together..... but no sex.... im the one that wants it now...but i find myself saying to myself,, he is worth the wait..... what a twist huh.....
maleea27 Posted January 15, 2006 Posted January 15, 2006 i think u should tell her how u feel and if she doesn't feel the same way then just leave atleast u tried to tell her.
Author Hellfire Posted January 15, 2006 Author Posted January 15, 2006 i think u should tell her how u feel and if she doesn't feel the same way then just leave atleast u tried to tell her. Yea you just bothered to not read my last post.... She knows I like her... Like I said a few post up (if you bothered to read) she dosent really have a boyfriend! I know she has liked me before, and yea...what does this mean now?
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