What are signs a woman is interested in you?

[James63]

My method was studying her behavior and seeing how she treats me compared to other dudes. For example, If she's super friendly with me and everyone, she's probably super friendly. If she's super friendly with just me, then she's probably interested. However I want to know if this method is flawed or if I'm missing something. I've heard that if a woman plays with her hair, it's a good sign but have also heard stories of a woman playing with her hair who wasn't interested.

[Gina2005]

It entirely depends on her own personality.

For example, she could be really shy, and try to give you hints, discretely, and hope for you to notice and approach her and start a conversation, or she could be more confident and try to start a conversation with you.

 

[basil67]

There are no guaranteed signs that a woman is interested.  I talked to my husband more than others on the day we met, so it was true in this case .  But if I'm at an event, I talk to some men more than other men simply because the conversation flows easier.   I'm not going to spend much time talking with any man (or woman) if the conversation doesn't flow easily. 

I think that if she touches you, it's more likely she's interested....but still no guarantees because some people are just touchy

 

 

[Gebidozo]

4 hours ago, James63 said:

If she's super friendly with just me, then she's probably interested.

Not necessarily. She might just like hanging and talking with you, like your personality without having any romantic attraction to you.

 

4 hours ago, James63 said:

I've heard that if a woman plays with her hair, it's a good sign

That’s really silly. In general, trying to measure a woman’s level of interest in you from her body language is a lost cause. Don’t assume anything from the way a woman looks, walks, talks, even touches you.

If she tells you she’d like to go out with you, then yes, that would be a sign of initial interest. 

[MsJayne]

Depends on the individual's personality, their level of maturity, their cultural influences, their level of self-confidence, and various other factors. Some people become very animated and 'up' when they're in the vicinity of someone they're attracted to, some people withdraw and become shy and less talkative. More mature women are likely to be friendly and strike up conversation with you, whereas immature women might become a bit giggly and silly. There's one absolutely certain way of gauging the level of someone's interest in you, and that's to invite them on a no-pressure date. 

[ShySoul]

7 hours ago, James63 said:

My method was studying her behavior and seeing how she treats me compared to other dudes. For example, If she's super friendly with me and everyone, she's probably super friendly. If she's super friendly with just me, then she's probably interested. However I want to know if this method is flawed or if I'm missing something. I've heard that if a woman plays with her hair, it's a good sign but have also heard stories of a woman playing with her hair who wasn't interested.

Why do you need a method in the first place? Going around examining every little action and questioning what they mean is a sure fire way of driving yourself crazy and will cause you to overthink. You'll end up misreading things because every person is different and shows things in different ways. There is no one size fits all answer. She may be more friendly with you just because she trusts you and likes you in terms of a close friend. Doesn't mean she wants more. On the other hand, some people (male and female) will get more shy and closed off around people they are interested in. Some people are obvious with flirting. Other people are very subtle. And some people can say things that might be considered flirty, but are just them having fun.

In my experience, best thing is to not worry about it. Just talk to her and get to know her. Enjoy being around each other and have nice interactions. If there is more there, you'll find yourself getting closer and spending more time together. There is this feeling you get, something you can sense. You don't need to look for it, it will come to you. From there it's being willing to take a chance and say something. It's asking them out or admitting to them how you feel. And it's seeing where things go from there.

Being in the moment and letting things play out naturally is usually the best "method." 

[The_CROW]

I've had girls ignore me and avoid eye contact/direct communication while they've been very interested in me.

I've had girls hug me, touch me all kind of ways all over my body, kiss my cheek, hold my hand, compliment my physique and deliberately & obviously flirt with me verbally that have had absolutely 0 romantic interest in me.

People show interest differently.

Don't drive yourself crazy.

Build rapport, talk to her, tease her, make her laugh. If there's something there, ask her out.

 

[Interstellar]

Depending on the woman and her personality, they have different ways of showing it. I had this one Asian babe who’s introverted  who seems to be in the background or hovering around whenever i’m at work. I call her The Hoverer. At first i figured it’s just a coincidence but it became too much of a pattern for her to just ignore. When i’m going to the restroom I bump into her, whenever i’m going to lunch, there she is again. When i’m in a specific place in the building she shows up again. She’s like this bee buzzing around wondering what i’m up to. It’s cute. So I talked to her and asked for her number. 

Edited Friday at 10:00 AM by Interstellar

[flitzanu]

one sign a woman is interested in you is if you ask her on a romantic date and she says yes.

[Sanch62]

If she's giving you enough access to speak with her long enough to ask her for a date, then you can resolve this question by asking her for a date

Her answer will tell you what you really want to know.

The rest is just noise.

[ShySoul]

Rather then being so focused on if someone else could possibly be interested in you, the bigger question is how do you feel about them? If you aren't interested, doesn't really matter how they feel as nothing will happen. If you are, then you owe it to yourself to get to know them and see if there is any kind of connection that could lead to more.

Just my experience, but being around a person and being friends with them is the first step. When it starts to turn into more, you feel it. You just know. You don't need to question everything, you will know when it's right. Then it's having the courage to say something yourself.