Sonny Cooper Posted July 5 Posted July 5 35-year-old autistic male here. Quite recently a very good friend of mine (57-year-old non-autistic female) told me that she had a dream in which I asked her to marry me and she accepted. She said afterwards, "If the thought ever entered your mind, you know my response." Would you all call this definite, irrefutable proof that she likes me in that way? I'm just looking for opinions. 1
ShySoul Posted July 5 Posted July 5 I could see a case where it's said in a joking way just to be silly and playful, but most likely she does have some feelings for you. Most people won't be talking proposals and marrige if they weren't interested to some degree. What are your feelings for her? If you are interested, tell her. Ask her out. Maybe hold off on getting married. But at least see where this could go.
Author Sonny Cooper Posted July 18 Author Posted July 18 I'm a guy (35). A very close female friend (57) of mine has been hinting that she wants a relationship with me. Thoughts?
basil67 Posted July 18 Posted July 18 The answer lies in whether or not you want a relationship with her.
MsJayne Posted July 18 Posted July 18 Yes, she's giving you a massive hint. It's up to you to do the initiating if you want a relationship with her. At 57 she's teetering on the verge of being an OAP, so you better hurry .
Author Sonny Cooper Posted July 18 Author Posted July 18 30 minutes ago, MsJayne said: Yes, she's giving you a massive hint. It's up to you to do the initiating if you want a relationship with her. At 57 she's teetering on the verge of being an OAP, so you better hurry . She is definitely not on the verge of becoming an OAP, trust me. You should see her.
swirlingcloud Posted July 19 Posted July 19 On 7/5/2025 at 7:23 PM, Sonny Cooper said: 35-year-old autistic male here. Quite recently a very good friend of mine (57-year-old non-autistic female) told me that she had a dream in which I asked her to marry me and she accepted. She said afterwards, "If the thought ever entered your mind, you know my response." Would you all call this definite, irrefutable proof that she likes me in that way? I'm just looking for opinions. She is flirting with you. That's how I see it. My husband has autism too. He can't tell when the air, feelings in a room of people is changing while I who am sensitive see, feel it. He misses or read differently signs from others (or me) sometimes. Do you have someone that could help you out reading her behavoir as a total around you that person can give you more clarity. Or simply ask her if you want to know if she was serious about what she said, or what was that.
enterthevoid Posted July 19 Posted July 19 You can always just ask. That will give you a way clearer answer than looking for signs and signals. If you like her, ask her out on a date.
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