She had a split with a friend, and is not satisfied that a problem has not been solved. How would you approach her?

[Amtguy]

I’m interested in starting a relationship with her, and am willing to throw my self out to help her. I’m not on of those wimpy simp guys fyi. She’s had a falling out with a friend this weekend, I finally got her to talk about it. She was nearly in tears in front of me. Now she is not satisfied with her work in class.
 

This morning I bought her some chocolate (witch did not take much convincing for her to take), and this evening I explained that when I feel the way she dose it’s because I’m often frustrated at my self. She should relax, walk away for a wile, and talk about the project tomorrow morning. I made sure  to wish her a good night sleep and see her tomorrow. 
 

I have a feeling she’s starting to open up emotionally in frond of me. How can I help her? How would you proceed?

[basil67]

Rookie error!  I'm afraid you are muddying the waters between friend and boyfriend.  You're well on the way to being a friend.

Time to switch it up and ask her on a date.  Try something like "I really like you. Could I take you on a date?"   (make sure to use the word 'date' so she knows it's not dinner with a buddy).  

If she accepts, don't be talking about her personal problems on the date.  This is about having fun and getting to know each other, it's not about therapy.   Let her female friends be the therapists

 

[Gebidozo]

2 hours ago, Amtguy said:

I have a feeling she’s starting to open up emotionally in frond of me. How can I help her? How would you proceed?

If you want a romantic relationship with her, helping her in such matters would only lower your chances and steer you into the dreaded “friendzone”.

You don’t want her to open up emotionally about her problems with her friends, you want her to like you as a guy.

Don’t be a shoulder to cry on, ask her out on a date and be unequivocally romantic.

[Amtguy]

Last weekend I got a rain check on some hiking we had been talking about. Perhaps I should work that angle. Should I just be up front about it?

[basil67]

1 hour ago, Amtguy said:

Last weekend I got a rain check on some hiking we had been talking about. Perhaps I should work that angle. Should I just be up front about it?

I think I was pretty clear about being more upfront  

[Gina2005]

2 hours ago, Amtguy said:

Last weekend I got a rain check on some hiking we had been talking about. Perhaps I should work that angle. Should I just be up front about it?

You could, maybe cut a flower and give it to her?

Can you add more insight about this interaction?

6 hours ago, Amtguy said:

This morning I bought her some chocolate (witch did not take much convincing for her to take),

What did she said? What did you do to convince her to take that chocolate?

 

 

[Amtguy]

32 minutes ago, Gina2005 said:

You could, maybe cut a flower and give it to her?

Can you add more insight about this interaction?

What did she said? What did you do to convince her to take that chocolate?

 

 

She’s very easy to talk to just like a normal person. Usually, I have to jump through hoops to get a date, none of those flirting bullshit. If I think something needs to be swayed I’ll say it as it is.

Yesterday I decided to buy her chocolate she ate a little bit on it and took the rest home. She only really spend a lot of time around me even though there’s 100 me to each woman at our school. 

she did as me how I prefer how to date. I told her I usually let the woman set the rules for the first date, and I make them happen but the second date I ask her out. You learn more about the woman I think doing it that way.  This was before she invited me to the gym.

in school she dresses down because she doesn’t want the attention, is uncomfortable showing of her body but at the gym she has no problem being in a sports bras in front of me. 

[Gina2005]

6 minutes ago, Amtguy said:

She’s very easy to talk to just like a normal person. Usually, I have to jump through hoops to get a date, none of those flirting bullshit. If I think something needs to be swayed I’ll say it as it is.

Yesterday I decided to buy her chocolate she ate a little bit on it and took the rest home. She only really spend a lot of time around me even though there’s 100 me to each woman at our school. 

she did as me how I prefer how to date. I told her I usually let the woman set the rules for the first date, and I make them happen but the second date I ask her out. You learn more about the woman I think doing it that way.  This was before she invited me to the gym.

in school she dresses down because she doesn’t want the attention, is uncomfortable showing of her body but at the gym she has no problem being in a sports bras in front of me. 

Do you consider going hiking with her as a date?