Sammy_ Posted May 27 Posted May 27 Hi My ex and I broke up about a year and a half ago. It didn't end badly. We don't talk that much but it is ''friendly'' when we do. A year ago I told him I met someone. He didn't aks any question. He just said he hopes that I'll be happy. We never talked about it again. But now I live with that new guy. The problem is that my ex left lots of stuff in my home (I'm the one who kept the house). He has to come soon to pick the last of his remainings. As we never talked about it again, I don't know if he even has a clue that I'm still in a relationship with someone. And to top it all, he will realize, coming home, that I share what used to be our home with someone else. I'm so stressed about it. I don't want to hurt him, I wish I could avoid it, but I can't. So should I let it slide ou should I tell him beforehand that my new boyfriend live here? And how to do so? FYI I'm also moving. So lots of our own stuff are in boxes, but still he can maybe see a couple of things that aren't mine.
Gina2005 Posted May 28 Posted May 28 You told him you were seeing someone and he didn't have bad reaction. Why would this be any different? 1
stillafool Posted May 28 Posted May 28 Since it's been a year and a half since the breakup he's probably over you and involved with someone else. If he thought he was going to be hurt by seeing you with someone else when he collects his things he probably wouldn't come or send someone else to get his stuff. Why is he now coming to get his things after a year and a half?
Sanch62 Posted May 29 Posted May 29 12 hours ago, Gina2005 said: You told him you were seeing someone and he didn't have bad reaction. Why would this be any different? Yeah, this sounds like you're projecting some unnecessary drama onto a clear transaction. You've both moved on. Either he wants to pick up his stuff, or he can negotiate another option, like paying for shipping or sending a moving crew to do the pickup. This is not your problem to manage.
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