riobikini Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 LN8840K, WAKE UP!!!! You are sucked into the black hole of regret, 'what ifs' and having fantastical illusions beyond the 'norm' and it seems to be viciously holding you captive. (i.e. quote: "...I told her I wanted to marry her and for her to have my children and if she did not want the same then yes its better not to talk..") ( i.e. quote:" I told her I wanted her to have my baby...then 3 days later I told her I was moving and did not call for a week..") ( i.e. quote:"... we fought on and off, I told her I loved her and wanted to marry her, then said I wanted to be friends and she should date other people, then went back to I love you...then she gave me the final ax on new years eve, damn comittment issues..) Your threads/posts have shown a consistent pattern of break-down, flip-flops, indecision, and adherence to extremely unrealistic thoughts concerning this relationship bordering dangerously on the possible need for professional help. You are not moving t-h-r-o-u-g-h this, at all, judging from your posts. It seems as if there is more work needed than lay people can help you with, -issues mostly concerning you. Consider seeking the help of a professional. -Rio
Author LN8840K Posted January 14, 2006 Author Posted January 14, 2006 Hi Rio ...... You are sucked into the black hole of regret, 'what ifs' and having fantastical illusions beyond the 'norm' and it seems to be viciously holding you captive. You are not moving t-h-r-o-u-g-h this, at all This was in my first post on this thread I have no control, the ball is in her court...I'm am slowly accepting this is probably it, I am glad she said what she said because I know what I did wrong and tried to make it right, but she could not let it go and move on from it ........ I hope she feels better now that she has hurt me and I hope she thinks it was worth it ..... I think at this point it would be better to give her space, I am moving on, I'm not being held captive, I have done a lot of reflecting and although I know what the issue is about, it's been a pattern for quite awhile now and untill now I would just blame it on them and would not acknowledge my part in it ..... it's going to take a lot of work but I see it now. I just like you and everyone else have issues ....... I was having a bad night and was missing her, it is now day 14 no contact
riobikini Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 Duly acknowledged, LN8840K. Good to hear you are doing well. -Rio
Author LN8840K Posted January 14, 2006 Author Posted January 14, 2006 Rio, is that avtar a picture of you .... ....shiyatttttttt you're hot
riobikini Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 No...it's not an avatar...it's really me. Pic taken last month. (Smile) -Rio
Author LN8840K Posted January 14, 2006 Author Posted January 14, 2006 One word YUMMMMMMMMMMMMMMY ......
riobikini Posted January 15, 2006 Posted January 15, 2006 There you go, -flirting with someone much wiser than you..... At least, it's good to see you have certainly moved on. Take care. -Rio
Author LN8840K Posted January 15, 2006 Author Posted January 15, 2006 Flirting ? < laughing > Whats your sign ? STOP would not be that original of a response ......... I am betting Scorpio
riobikini Posted January 15, 2006 Posted January 15, 2006 LN8840K, RE: LN8840K: " Whats your sign ? ......I am betting Scorpio" Las Vegas is one of my favorite cities....and in famous words uttered there quite often, -you lose. (Smile) Goodnight. -Rio
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