mSjENny Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 long story short my ex broke up with me a year ago because i was to overprotective and i still want him back to show him in not like that n e more and that i can trust him what can i do or say to convince him to give me another chance?
skeptik224 Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 Have you guys been in contact since the break-up?
bluetuesday Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 what can i do or say to convince him to give me another chance? very little. he thinks what he thinks about you based on the evidence of your past and has probably moved on, which is what you should do. you seem to be saying you want him back so you can show him he's wrong about you. but there are some things that once you know 'em, can't be unlearned. being overprotective is a little like being overkeen to show him you've changed. both can be perceived as forceful behaviour to thrust your ideas or ways of working on other people. your only chance is to truly become someone who isn't guided in her actions by what other people will think. of course if this were the case, the need to have him back to show him how wrong he was wouldn't be there any more.
Author mSjENny Posted January 14, 2006 Author Posted January 14, 2006 im not tryin to prove him wrong i just feel that im not that type of person n e more and by me bein a new person (not exactly a new person, but ive changed) i feel in mah heart we could make it work because that was the only problem we had when we were together but the only problem is convincin him you know what i mean right. and to the first person that made a comment yea i have called him once out of no where to see how hes doin and i just saw him about 4 days ago and i was scared to say n e thing so now im tryin to think of how to get him back.
Astarte Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 Tell him what you feel and think, life is too short to spend it with coulds and woulds and mights. Ok, you need courage for that, but it'll clear things. It's just...if he doesn't want to go back with you, there's nothing you can do as feelings can't be forced or manipulated... Good luck !!
Jey dey Dey Posted January 15, 2006 Posted January 15, 2006 in the last year? If not you have had a lot of time apart. Get that idea of getting back with him, starting a relationship out of your head. That will only confuse you. Be his friend. Next time you see him say hi and smile. See how it goes. Act like you're happy, having a good time blah blah blah. Be his friend, that's all you can do. If you come out and express what you're feeling and that you still want him it's going to scare him. A year and this girl is not over me, damn. That's needy. All I can say is that you be his friend first, let him call you, hang out and live in the moment. Don't try to kiss him, don't say anything about us. It's a new start.
Author mSjENny Posted January 25, 2006 Author Posted January 25, 2006 he works all the time now and i work so its like we dont ever have time to see each other and say hi mayb once and a while but not often. I just care about him so much i cant see myself with n e one else.
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