BlahBlahQueen Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 The following conversation has been copied over from AIM directly. The only changes made to it are spelling corrections and our names. Adam: baby, you didn't shower yesterday right? Jane: before school i did, but i didn't wash my hair... why? Jane: i only wash my hair like once a week Jane: =-O do i reek??? Jane: guess that means yes. Adam: i cleaned my hands with those lysol wipes Adam: soap at home Adam: took a shower Adam: and still now it's so strong Jane: lmao, you're losing your mind Jane: that's impossible Adam: nope Jane: LMAO!!! omg that sucks. i need to start eating sweets again, then Jane: if my secretions have an offensive odor or flavor, a change in my diet will take care of that. Jane: hint - it works with semen too Adam: lol Jane: :'( Jane: my boyfriend hates me because i smell like the liquid at the bottom of the garbage bag Adam: under the sun Jane: >:-o Adam: do i have to change my diet ? Jane: no silly Jane: your cum tastes sweet Jane: i just unfortunately can't smell a thing because of this cold. Adam: lol Jane: so don't expect me to smell like roses while i'm sick, if i can't even tell what i smell like Adam: i wasn't complaining Adam: i just covered my mouth with my hand and remembered that Jane: well if it's all the same to you, i would enjoy it very much if you bathed me tonight, and washed my hair and such. Jane: will you? Adam: lol Jane: i'm serious, i'm starved for intimacy. i'm not just talking sexual Jane: i need the *other* kind of intimacy Adam: wtf Jane: the cuddly intimacy Jane: kisses and hugs and cuddling and baths and scratchies Jane: et cetera Jane: i live for that $hit Adam: 'cause i don't do it enough... Jane: lol of course you do, but i don't see you every day and i am STARVED for it Adam: i love you lots, but i can't go out till 4 a.m. on weekdays, go to work, live my life, and be there for you every single second we are together Jane: i realize that, silly. i'm not saying you should. i'm saying i keep my desire for intimacy bottled up inside me Adam: i haven't played [bass], shot [pictures], painted, or seen my friends in 2 weeks Jane: i'm sorry i'm keeping you from your life, that was never my intention Lovely, huh? Apparently I reek.
blind_otter Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 There is this delightful perfume called "soap and water" made by philosophy. I call it my shortcut shower. Because I like to smell cleeeeeen before social interactions, but am too lazy to take more than one shower a day.
Author BlahBlahQueen Posted January 14, 2006 Author Posted January 14, 2006 Yes, but can I spray it on my cunt? The whole sad incident was born of a fingering event gone horribly awry.
Art_Critic Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 Guy sounds inexperienced.. Woman all have different scents some have hardly any at all or none.. some have quite a bit of flavor.. If your clean and have no infections and eat right then your boyfriend doesn't like the smell/taste of pu$$y.. I person luv the smell and taste to some it is an aquired taste.. If he can't take your scent then you either have to live with it or find someone that can apprieciate the fine scent of woman.
Author BlahBlahQueen Posted January 14, 2006 Author Posted January 14, 2006 LMAO no he's always liked the smell of my poontang before. It was an isolated incident. Like I said, I have a cold and cannot smell myself. Maybe it did smell like a landfill down there.
clandestinidad Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 what happened at the end there?? did the convo. just stop like that? i thought it was leading to an argument
whichwayisup Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 Seems there are other issues than just a stinky fool around session. He points out afew things that really say alot about his priorities in the relationship. Jane: i'm serious, i'm starved for intimacy. i'm not just talking sexual Jane: i need the *other* kind of intimacy Adam: wtf Adam: i love you lots, but i can't go out till 4 a.m. on weekdays, go to work, live my life, and be there for you every single second we are together Jane: i realize that, silly. i'm not saying you should. i'm saying i keep my desire for intimacy bottled up inside me Adam: i haven't played [bass], shot [pictures], painted, or seen my friends in 2 weeks Jane: i'm sorry i'm keeping you from your life, that was never my intention I mean, he seems to be implying that you're needy and what time he gives you isn't enough and also says that he is missing out on things he wants to do in life. He never once mentioned that included you to come along. How long have you two been going out and how serious are you guys? 1
Author BlahBlahQueen Posted January 14, 2006 Author Posted January 14, 2006 I think that's best answered by a continuation of the convo. Good thing I still had the messenger window open. Jane: first you tell me i reek, then you tell me i'm keeping you from your life. It's been a shocking morning Jane: trying to get used to it Jane: i'll get over it Adam: stop that Jane: you do understand that i'm not keeping you from your friends or activities, right? are you blaming me for that? Adam: no baby Adam: i love being with you Adam: you fulfill me Jane: yes but please, by all means, pursue your own hobbies. it's your right. i have never kept you from that. every time I ask if we can meet up, it's always a "request" not a "demand". Jane: you don't have to spend time with me when you don't have time to spare. i'm not trying to interfere with your life Jane: all i was originally trying to say was not that i need to see you every day. i did not express myself correctly. the way i meant it was that SINCE i don't see you every day, i have a lot of pent-up intimacy needs, and that's fine, but i hoped that tonight we could make up for lost time Adam: i wanna shoot my nephews on saturday evening Adam: maybe shoot a show on saturday night Adam: gotta talk to bobby too Adam: but i need to sleep Jane: so i guess tonight's not good. ok maybe sometime next week? Adam: this has been a bizarre week Adam: i wanna see you Adam: i miss you Adam: today i woke up, sat on bed and looked for you I see him roughly twice a week. We've been dating for just over two weeks. We spent 24/7 together at first.
whichwayisup Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 Okay well 2 weeks isn't much. Just let it grow and build up as time goes on. He has his life and I guess time will allow things to change as in how he is going to handle his time between friends, family, nephews, his alone time and you. He's honest, so that is good. Yet also typical male (can only discuss "intense" conversations like that for so long, before it gets too much for him...That is okay and it's how (most) guys are.) When you see him go have some fun, keep things light. (Meaning, no 'serious' relationship discussions)
Author BlahBlahQueen Posted January 14, 2006 Author Posted January 14, 2006 When you see him go have some fun, keep things light. (Meaning, no 'serious' relationship discussions) OK that sounds fair. Thing is, this whole conversation took place while he was at work. (He has a lot of spare time at his job; he's a "specialist" who basically gets paid to be there in case they need him.) In private, he will be the one to bring this stuff up half the time. Should I just let it slide if he does? Should I try to steer away from serious conversation if he initiates?
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