Pearltwo Posted May 22 Posted May 22 I am a 54 year old man and i just ended a fling with my my sons 20 year old friend. He visited when my son was out of the town, and I invited him in and we had a chat about few drinks, and eventually I made my move. I just couldn't resist, he's very attractive and I risked it all right there. We had sex 4x since but stopped afterwards. I want to keep this to myself so no one gets hurt and he promised me he'll keep it to himself too. Do you think it's going to be okay?
Sony12 Posted May 22 Posted May 22 (edited) 16 minutes ago, Pearltwo said: I am a 54 year old man and i just ended a fling with my my sons 20 year old friend. He visited when my son was out of the town, and I invited him in and we had a chat about few drinks, and eventually I made my move. I just couldn't resist, he's very attractive and I risked it all right there. We had sex 4x since but stopped afterwards. I want to keep this to myself so no one gets hurt and he promised me he'll keep it to himself too. Do you think it's going to be okay? This is why if you are attracted to people your children's ages you go after people completely separate from your children's lives. And are you sure you are 54. Your age range says 55-64. Edited May 22 by Sony12
Author Pearltwo Posted May 22 Author Posted May 22 4 minutes ago, Sony12 said: This is why if you are attracted to people your children's ages you go after people completely separate from your children's lives. And are you sure you are 54. Your age range says 55-64. Yes, I am turning 55 in two months.
Sony12 Posted May 22 Posted May 22 Just now, Pearltwo said: Yes, I am turning 55 in two months. Ok. Look I get the attraction to people outside of your normal age range as I mainly go out with older women and when I was in my 20's I was involved with a lady in her 50's. However getting involved with your actual kids friends is beyond immature and almost borders on a porn fantasy as those are the types of things they make porn videos about.
Sanch62 Posted May 22 Posted May 22 It's a dice roll. How are we supposed to know? If he's more devious and sophisticated than you may have credited, he might have filmed the experience on his phone.
stillafool Posted May 22 Posted May 22 (edited) Is his friend gay? Is your son? Edited May 22 by stillafool
Sony12 Posted May 22 Posted May 22 1 hour ago, Sanch62 said: It's a dice roll. How are we supposed to know? If he's more devious and sophisticated than you may have credited, he might have filmed the experience on his phone. That is definitely something people have to be weary of these days (especially when they are involved in something that is almost 100% about sex. There are amateur porn sites out there where all people have to do is create a profile and they are then able to upload stuff. I don't know how common it is for men to want to record other men doing stuff to them but it is extremely common for men to get a thrill out of recording women doing stuff to them. These days all it takes is a couple clicks to get it up on the internet for the world to see.
Author Pearltwo Posted May 22 Author Posted May 22 3 hours ago, stillafool said: Is his friend gay? Is your son? I believe my son is bi at least, but I am not sure. He claims he is straight but I have doubts. This friend says he has gfs but wanted to try a guy out so I offered myself. So I don't know.
ExpatInItaly Posted May 22 Posted May 22 6 hours ago, Pearltwo said: Do you think it's going to be okay? In what way, exactly? Are you asking if your son will be upset if he finds out?
Sony12 Posted May 22 Posted May 22 8 minutes ago, Pearltwo said: I believe my son is bi at least, but I am not sure. He claims he is straight but I have doubts. This friend says he has gfs but wanted to try a guy out so I offered myself. So I don't know. If there is any truth to this story and it isn't something you are just making up have you considered talking to a therapist?
BaileyB Posted May 22 Posted May 22 6 hours ago, Pearltwo said: Do you think it's going to be okay? That’s anybody’s guess - If your son’s opinion is important to you, then you probably should have considered that a little more before hooking up with his friend.
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