rick812 Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 I started dating this girl two months ago. Things moved very quickly and a month into the relationship she told me she loved me. I too felt the same. Here's the problem. Her mood swings. One day she is so loving, telling me she loves me multiple times a day. Then the next day she turns cold. After an argument this past weekend she told me that she felt that she told me she loved me too soon. Since then, she has been very cold towards me. It's like a rollercoster ride with this girl. Last night we were hanging out and I felt that she could not have been less attracted to me, wereas before she made it very clear how attracted she was to me. Her excuse for treating me this way is stress about work. Do I end things with her or try and work things out.
slubberdegullion Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 This is only going to get worse if you don't get some straight answers from her immediately. Telling you that she's stressed from work may be the truth, but that's no reason to treat you like s***, just as it would be unacceptable if you were to treat her poorly because of some issues that had nothing to do with her. You're going to have to grow some stones and lay it all down: "I know you're stressed at work, and I appreciate that, but frankly I don't deserve the cold shoulder. If there's something I can do to help, then just ask. Otherwise, leave the office at the office."
whichwayisup Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 I agree with Slub on this one. Don't put up with her rudeness...That is what it is. I'm sorry, but she is an adult and can control her moods. I mean, you two really don't know eachother and she's doing this? Not cool. If she is scared and acting out because she said I LOVE YOU too soon, then you have a right to know the truth. She owes you that much...And some more respect!
Weye Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 Sounds like a psycho-chick to me. Be ready to drop her on a minutes notice. Slub's advice is sound. Call her on her $H!+. Make sure she knows that you're not going to put up with her treating you like that. If you tell her that and she still gives you crap, dump her and don't look back.
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