HollyDolly Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 I have a huge problem, and I need some new perspectives. I'm a sophomore in college, and I have a huge crush on a junior. We have barely spoken, and we have few mutual friends. One of my friends, however, is very close to him, and he has told me that my crush has noticed me staring at him and thought I was cute but wanted to get to know me better before anything happened. Which I know sounds promising, but this conversation took place almost a month ago, and I've done nothing to get to know him better. I'm not usually shy, but I can't seem to talk to him. Besides which, he is always surounded by his friends, most of whom I know only slightly. What should I do? How can I ask him out?
SincereOnlineGuy Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 Hi, This is one of those situations where someone who yearns to ride a bike without training wheels and all by herself is asking others who are mostly very familiar with riding bikes that way just how she should go about it. The main difference in you and in the audience you're asking for advice is merely the strong realization that both you, and most of us, COULD and would approach the male interest in a reasonably direct manner, and would "know" that if we fell off the bike that time, that it wouldn't delay our eventual learning to ride that bike again and again later. Female attention is one of the most widely sought-after substances in the world. With that in mind, you should directly and assertively approach this guy... and when he's with a friend or two, just touch his arm and ask if you can speak to him privately for a minute. Then when you have him alone (of course it will be in a very public area, just out of earshot of others), be direct in your interest and with an invitation to some social function or way that you can spend time together. Your interest will be the ultimate in flattering, and your confidence (if only for a moment) will be exciting for him to be around. All you need to hear from us is "just step-up" So go for it and report back here !
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