SummerSun1989 Posted May 7 Posted May 7 So basically I had a huge crush on this guy I worked with last year and I swear it was mutual. We used to flirt regularly at work and over email. He asked to hang out outside of work with another coworker. We got a little drunk and definitely started to cuddle and hold hands. He walked me home we hugged and then it was like nothing ever happened. He actively began avoiding me at work and we never really spoke to one another which was us both really trying to to talk to one another and going through colleagues because we literally would have to talk to one another to do our jobs. I’m very aware that he likely backed off because it wasn’t worth the risk of awkwardness or unnecessary tension at work I ended up quitting a few months later and he sent me a goodbye message. I haven’t spoken to him in 8 months and he just text me tonight. For the sake of the dialogue (or lack thereof) my fake name is Rachel. Him: Rachel! Me: well this is a nice surprise hi! Him: wasn’t sure if this would still be your number Me: it still definitely is Him: noted What the actual F kind of interaction is that? Is he setting me up to be a booty call or to actually Pursue me or what should I maybe even make of this?
Sony12 Posted May 7 Posted May 7 He's simply seeing if you are still willing to talk to him. Guys do this all the time. Send quick messages to women they used to interact with to gauge their current interest levels. 1
Author SummerSun1989 Posted May 7 Author Posted May 7 Thank you! Do you think I should reach out to him again or just leave it be.
Sony12 Posted May 7 Posted May 7 (edited) 7 minutes ago, SummerSun1989 said: Thank you! Do you think I should reach out to him again or just leave it be. If you'd like to go ahead. He might not be relationship material but if you are ok with that you are both adults. And you aren't coworkers any longer. Edited May 7 by Sony12 1
ExpatInItaly Posted May 8 Posted May 8 11 hours ago, SummerSun1989 said: Is he setting me up to be a booty call or to actually Pursue me Impossible to tell. He didn't say enough to indicate anything. 9 hours ago, Sony12 said: Guys do this all the time. Send quick messages to women they used to interact with to gauge their current interest levels This is true. I have been on the receiving end of many such messages in my day. Sometimes it meant something more, others times it meant nothing. If you want to see him again, ask to meet.
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