Gator762 Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 Ladies, I met a group of people last week, one was this nice woman... We seemed to hit it off pretty well, we laughed quite a bit, she gave me frequent smiles and eye contact, and physical contact (touched my arms a number of times). I asked for her number, and if she would like to go out sometime next week, and she said yes. Called her over the weekend, and she got back to me Sunday. I invited her out for coffee. She said her schedule was very busy, and wasn't sure, but would call me later in the week. Well, it's Thursday and I haven't heard back yet. Now she could just be busy, and nothing more to it than that. Is it too eager to call her back yet? Could she be just making me chase her? I'm thinking it's Thursday, and would like to fit into her weekend schedule. Is dinner and a movie too heavy now for a first date?
Yamaha Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 She's blowing you off. I would just move on and if she calls you great but don't keep trying on your end. 1
LN8840K Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 I personally would not consider it a blow off yet ..... call her and see whats up ...... if she does not answer or return call, then yeah i would say next. seems to me the one's that play hard to get, either don't really like you or they like playing games ..... either way is the juice worth the squeeze ? anyway that's my .02
gfto Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 She is not playing hard to get. She simply isn't interested in you. If she was, then she would have either (a) accepted the date, or (b) made a counteroffer. When she told you that she had a busy schedule and that she would call you back, you should've said "great; talk to you later," and then flushed her phone number.
cygny Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 maybe you are not the only one pursuing her. she may be interested but has other fish to fry and yes she might be busy. i'd give her a call and try to feel her out. if she sounds interested ask her out for coffee on sunday. dinner and movie too much right now until you establish interest. then do one or the other.
Author Gator762 Posted January 13, 2006 Author Posted January 13, 2006 Sounds like I'm not the only one pursuing her, or she isn't over her ex. She called last night, and left a message. Short of it is that she said that she just got over a relationship, wasn't ready, and is too busy. Then she said maybe we'll bump into each other in a few months. Oh well, back at it again!
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