ikonik Posted May 3 Posted May 3 ok so dating app girl i've been talking to said i lack consistent communication yet when we talked on the app, she used to take days to respond, sometimes up to four days. eventually i got her number. i asked her out after a few days and she even said "took you long enough! yes." she agreed to the date and seemed enthusisastic about it. a few days before at like 11pm she texts me "hello" i respond with a hand wave and she never responds or looks at the text. today i texted her wanting to make plans for our date and she says "i've noticed a lack of consistincey in your comminication." i'm not entirely sure what she means when i can say the same for her, taking up to four days to repond. was she expecting me to make plans the first day we matched? i was always responsive and double texting at times.
Sony12 Posted May 3 Posted May 3 (edited) 1 hour ago, ikonik said: ok so dating app girl i've been talking to said i lack consistent communication yet when we talked on the app, she used to take days to respond, sometimes up to four days. eventually i got her number. i asked her out after a few days and she even said "took you long enough! yes." she agreed to the date and seemed enthusisastic about it. a few days before at like 11pm she texts me "hello" i respond with a hand wave and she never responds or looks at the text. today i texted her wanting to make plans for our date and she says "i've noticed a lack of consistincey in your comminication." i'm not entirely sure what she means when i can say the same for her, taking up to four days to repond. was she expecting me to make plans the first day we matched? i was always responsive and double texting at times. You two clearly didn't have much of a rapport with one another. You two never even met (and quite honestly barely talked either) so it's not a big deal. Just look for other people to talk to. Edited May 3 by Sony12 1
basil67 Posted May 3 Posted May 3 1 hour ago, ikonik said: ok so dating app girl i've been talking to said i lack consistent communication yet when we talked on the app, she used to take days to respond, sometimes up to four days. eventually i got her number. i asked her out after a few days and she even said "took you long enough! yes." she agreed to the date and seemed enthusisastic about it. a few days before at like 11pm she texts me "hello" i respond with a hand wave and she never responds or looks at the text. today i texted her wanting to make plans for our date and she says "i've noticed a lack of consistincey in your comminication." i'm not entirely sure what she means when i can say the same for her, taking up to four days to repond. was she expecting me to make plans the first day we matched? i was always responsive and double texting at times. Do I understand correctly that you asked her out but didn't attempt to make plans for a number of days afterwards? You should have discussed a date and venue at the time she agreed. Very poor form on your part. Also, if your spelling when dating is like it is here, you're going to turn off any woman who has a half decent education. I imagine that you're just writing very quickly, but spell check is your friend. Use it 1
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