PlentyLV007 Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 I met this great guy, great conversation, just clicked. I met this great guy through a "friend" at a social gathering. I had slept with this "Friend" about a year ago. Nothing serious, no feelings, no relationship and we still ended up good friends. We (new guy) exchange numbers and after our first date , he tells me that my "friend" told him about our time of being intimate. He claims to like me and that is why he doesn't care what happened between me and his friend. I stoped talking to his Friend after I found out he told him about our time. I never heard from him ever. Now I don't know if I should trust this guy or not. I know the way my old "friend" was and that is why we never clicked not even intimately. Now with the new guy, he is great in every way. It's only been a couple of weeks but, I'm still unsure. His friend doesn't know we are seeing each other from what the new guy says. Still I'm unsure. I mean...could he ever take me seriously? Or is he trying to be with me for a thrill due to his friend being with me? God knows what other words between guys they exchanged! For all who know...Please tell!
Author PlentyLV007 Posted January 13, 2006 Author Posted January 13, 2006 There is no way that there are no comments to this..... C'mon peeps!!!!
bluetuesday Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 Now with the new guy, he is great in every way. It's only been a couple of weeks but, I'm still unsure. His friend doesn't know we are seeing each other from what the new guy says. Still I'm unsure. I mean...could he ever take me seriously? Or is he trying to be with me for a thrill due to his friend being with me? God knows what other words between guys they exchanged! For all who know...Please tell! this is a problem with zero basis. unless you do something reeeeeeeally freaky in bed that old guy told new guy about and that new guy is waiting for. I'M JOKING! seriously, you sleep with one guy. you meet a new guy who knows about it and now even though the new guy is great in every way you're not sure if he can take you seriously because you once slept with a friend of his. am i reading this right? i'll stick my neck out and say the new guy couldn't care less about the old guy and is with you because he likes you. your main problem as i see it is that you'll f*** it up with the new guy if you keep worrying about this. it's a non problem, it really is. just relax and enjoy the new guy.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted January 13, 2006 Author Posted January 13, 2006 Well I haven't brought any of my thoughts about this to my new guy. It's just that everytime we hang out , we are all over each other, and we haven't really had a "real" date. It's usually my house or his house- Or my car. Any who, I really do like him, but I don't want to put my all if all he is going to do is hit it, just to get an ego trip and go with the "friend" and tell him, yeah I hit it too! New guy made a comment that , the "friend" has made comments like "yeah you like my left overs" I mean what the hell is that? I mean....I don't know if guys take girls seriously...I mean....In my head I'm seeing...yeah this is my girl and him looking at his friend who has been with me. You know? I honestly don't care for what the other guy thinks because he messed up our friendship once advertising to the new guy that we've slept toghether. I don't understand why he did that! I mean is he upset?
cygny Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 ugh. sounds like your old friend is a jerk with a need to have his ego stroked. the new guy probably likes you but primarily is focused on how to get you in the sack. just be friendly but don't have sex with him for like 4 months. don't be so available for hang out dates, hold back unless he takes you out. otherwise you are probably going to be the good-for-now girl. he's not going to take you seriously unless you show you ain't cheap.
Weye Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 Just take it one step at a time with the new guy. Don't worry about what comments his friend, the old guy, makes. They're two different people right? You're worried that all he's looking for is to hit it for an ego trip? Maybe he is, maybe he isn't. All guys are different. Get to know him better and decide for yourself if he's someone you want to be with or not. We have no way of knowing what he's like. And if you try to hold out for 4 months without sex, start making him take you out on traditional dates, and refuse to hang out, you'll just get yourself dumped.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted January 13, 2006 Author Posted January 13, 2006 In a way they do seem like two different people, yet I mostly think that each guy has different game to get what they want. Of course the majority of the time most people's goal is to get laid by someone they like, then hope it's great! I know I do. Especially if the foreplay is good. Sometimes I just want to lay there and be held, after the first round of fourplay but, it just doesn't happen. I will take it one step at a time though. Thanks and keep your thoughts coming!
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