I dont know what to do about this guy, and im deeply in love with him

[cherryoreos]

So, his ex said about how he runs off for months, and then comes back, and then rinse, repeat.

he cited it's due to his vagus nerve in his brain that needs to cool down, and he wont go to therapy

or have a surgery to fix that problem. he said it can't be fixed and it cant be helped.  do i need to give up

cause i was invested in him, and i feel sorry for his ex gf for the hell she went through. just cause he had

a bad childhood doesnt give him a reason or right to treat women horribly like this.

[ExpatInItaly]

We are going to need some context. 

Who is he to you - your boyfriend? How do you know what his ex says about him?

10 hours ago, cherryoreos said:

doesnt give him a reason or right to treat women horribly like this.

Like what, exactly? Does he disappear on your for months at a time, too?

[Georgia46]

The bad ones can always seem exciting.. but then when you think about it logically… ARE they?     
 

 

I reckon I’d choose calm over chaos these days….