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Sorry brittany...I have been through that experience before and it really really really hurts. Learn not to look at their profiles because most likely you are not going to like what you see. Why continually torture yourself.

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I just found my ex boyfrineds new girlfriends myspace- omg i cant even breath wtffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff--------they did move- they are in love omg wtf the guy i was with for two years

 

gosh this is a never ending cyleeeee

 

Brit.. You know that you should be looking at that.. it just plain hurts I know.. try and stop looking at it

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she has this whole fantasy world in her head, she doesn't realized he used her back in middle school- its just so fake, and shocks me to death but oh well

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Don't look at that stuff, it will destroy you. Trust me on this one, you're better off not knowing.

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Britt, forget her. You're way better looking than her and if you just work on your confidence and self-esteem you'll have guys falling all over you.

 

Forget him, forget her. It's not them causing you pain, it's you not letting go that is causing it. They can't hurt you if you don't let them and you let them every time you snoop around. Have some confidence in yourself and don't sweat what they are doing. It doesn't matter anymore.

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I'm so sorry to hear about that. That really hurts.

 

P.S. I read through her profile and it sounds a little fake. It's like she's some 12 year old who has to affirm her love for him in every sentence.

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she has your name? You are much prettier! I know it is hard, but try to not look at that anymroe. Better off not knowing! Trust me!

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Yes, i KNOWWWWWWW I MEEN i was like omg no she is not saying this stuff, I know i shoulden't snoop but its sooo hard- going through this- and to top it off i found out she used to work at lone star the place i used to work at so i had to here some crap about that today- i was just astonished by what i was reading

 

like are you kidding me???? you are obsssesd well this crap takes time- and its hard every where i go- its so crazy , they are living in the lake house that we all went to during the summer- it just makes me feel so low- like wow there getting out, im still here and look how hurt i am

 

 

yOU know???

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BRITTANY!!!!!!! You are absolutely gorgeous compared to her!! You are so unbelievably prettier. No joke. And she's smoking in 1 pic....how cute :rolleyes:

 

I know how you feel. First loves are the hardest. Believe me. I've been there!! When I was 18 (22 now and getting over another breakup) I was getting over my first love, and believe me...it was a feeling like I have never felt. I thought my life was over literally. And that's what makes it so much harder, this was your first love. This is a new emotion.

 

Please, please, please stop looking at the myspace. You have got to get away from it all. YOU WILL GET OVER THIS and you will laugh! I know I did. I look back at my first love...and think "phew, I'm glad we are still not together"

 

The pain will go away....it will, i promise. And plus not to sound vain but it's not like you're ugly. You are so pretty! You'll move on and get a better boyfriend...end of story.

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don't I know it, I know it's hard not to snoop. I broke up with someone some time ago but I still wonder what they are up too. Even though I am getting better at it....not trying to find out things, because it onnly gets worse and it puts me back in a place that hurts.

And I agree with everyone your a pretty girl and you've got alot going for you. Your so young...

You'll make it and soon you will be telling us about a great guy!:)

Just don't let your confidence go, keep that up!

And im sure many will see what you have...

 

Be positive!:)

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brittany you cant concern yourself with what theyre doing. theres no explanation that will make you feel better. my ex and i were together for 5.5 yrs. she broke up with me and a found someone right away. a month later they went on a trip to florida. quick right? im here feeling horrible about everything and she already found someone and has a new life. theres nothing you can do or think about to explain it. its so hard i know, all you want are answers. there are none. youre young and it sounds like the maturity level on their side hasnt gotten to a point to where you can get answers. you dont want or need them anyway. stop going on myspace. i was doing that and it held me back. PLEASE do yourself a favor and dont go there!

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I know, i really shoulden't be looking- i was so stunned by everything she was saying about them, like no are you kidding me??? This is a whole new emotion for me, your right, and its terrible- i was diong fine- until it hit me again- and i saw her myspace- and Now i feel sooooooo out of it- like that eerry feeling again- it does make you feel like life is over- i know its not- but i can not get away from this feeling- its this burning sensation and like not being able to breath- its terrible- but thanks for the advice im reallyyyy going to try hard and not look at her myspace-

 

I know i have alot going for me- but i can't stand when i get like this- all the energy like gets out of me and i can't even smile- its sick

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if he left you for THAT clown, he's not worth it at all. What an idiot she is.

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Everything she wrote- shocked me, SHES SOOOOOOO in love with him

 

 

It's crazy

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i would definitely be wary of someone who just got out of a relationship.

 

Maybe hes overcompensating his residual feelings for you by trying to act all in love with her.

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Yeah:-(- they live in elzibeth city though- thats where we went in the summer--she happen to come with other people

 

so they defiently moved-

 

thats sad though- and werid- moved in right away- and shes sooooo i dont know loved obssed oh well

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Does your ex only go for girls named "Brittney"? At least you were the original one :D

 

Liked her survey too

 

"Are you a tease: My nickname used to be blue-balls!"

 

Classy.

 

Don't look at things like this hun, I have passwords and access to my ex's email accounts if I wanted a snoop, but last time I did was about October, I don't even care now. Move on properly and let this dude go please!

 

x

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I know Cboy- But it was my first love- and all i keep thinking about are memories ijust want those to go away- and i would feel better-- and sooooo quickly he moved on is just sooooo werid to me- eh

 

do you believe in your self- when im with hiM

 

WTCRAP?lol he never made me believe in my self-

 

I'm trying- first love- so first experience with this feeilng-

 

i have felt pain before( while going out with him) but this is a feeling where i know its like over over- eh

 

thanks though

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This pain aches so bad- i hope it makes me a more spiritual person

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Everything she wrote- shocked me, SHES SOOOOOOO in love with him

 

I feel sorry for her. She sounds really keen on him.

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Yeah:-/ and she was like that with other dudes- but i feel like she always had this werid obbssession over andy

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R-I-P ROOFES sulliven- my fish- who died of lack of food- eh

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R-I-P ROOFES sulliven- my fish- who died of lack of food- eh

 

 

oh, you poor thing, the drama never ends! lol. But seriously, like many have said, you are GORGEOUS sweetie. And I'm not jsut saying that b/c you're sad/to blow smoke up your *ss. It's true. You're young AND on top of that you seem to be a genuinely sweet person :) I absolutely believe that you're not going to have any trouble finding love again. It's just up to you to decide when you're ready to move on and let this guy and his new life go.

 

His Loss.

 

Trust me I know how you feel but the pain does go away and yeah, I don't know about "spiritual" but you'll def. be a hell of a lot stronger for it. :cool:

 

*hugs*:love: and I hope you start feeling better!

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thanks so much!- I really can't wait to become a strong person--

 

and i have not viewed that site for days now, and i won't ...i meen will i want to run in to pictures of them NO I WOULD be in total shock-

 

thanks so much!

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