EuropeanGuy44 Posted April 7 Share Posted April 7 Hi everyone … I just want to share my story … Couple of years ago I met a woman online from the Caribbbean , we started speaking which Lead to us meeting and falling in love . We visited eachother a lot of times in our respective countries and eventually got Married . Before i get into the chore of the issue , let me just add a little background info , Ive been very fortunate the last couple of years through hard Work and smart investments and Im able to live a life that i never could have dreamt of growing up , i take care of her a lot even when We are not together , making sure She is safe and good at all times , She has kids from previous relationships and i make sure they are Always taken care of and good too. I basically has taken care of everything for the last 3-4 years Because i really love and care for her. Here is the thing , this woman is so incredibly sweet towards me when We are apart , messages , phonecalls, videocalls. But when We meet in person its a very different story … There is no real acknowledging me from her side , there is no romance , No intimacy ,no kisses or hugs, and its really frustrating me . When i bring it up to her She tells me that i have to respect her norms and what feels natural to her . It has Always been like this through the years but i thought and hoped for it to change with time . She is very kind towards me overall , but when it comes to romance there is nothing there from her side and i feel at times She is avoiding me when We are together in the same house . Its so Strange to me . As we still live in separate countries i came to visit (i am still here) her in the Caribbean 5 days ago , and i havent seen her since late January , and there has been no intimacy at all since i came and i doubt there will be before i leave since i dont see any effort from her side to create an enviroment like that . And honestly its killing me … Im a good looking man , i stay fit , i dress Well , Im a kind man with an honest heart and every time Im in the Caribbean i see women looking at me a lot . I just dont understand what is going on here . Any men or women dated in the Caribbean? Any Caribbean women here that Can expons to me Why this is happening ? All feedback Would be very much appreciated 🙏🏼 Have a blessed day everyone . Quote Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted April 7 Share Posted April 7 2 hours ago, EuropeanGuy44 said: There is no real acknowledging me from her side , there is no romance , No intimacy ,no kisses or hugs......It has Always been like this through the years but i thought and hoped for it to change with time If there's never been romance, intimacy or hugs why did you marry her? This was a fool's errand from the start Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted April 7 Share Posted April 7 It sounds like she found exactly what she was looking for - a man to take care of her financially. I too am wondering why you agreed to this arrangement when clearly, you were looking for more in the way of a more traditional and intimate marriage. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted April 7 Share Posted April 7 Why did you marry a woman who continues to live in another country and has no romantic, intimate relationship with you? That was an unbelievably foolish thing to do. What drove you to do it? She obviously has no romantic feelings for you and married you for your money. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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