asura089356 Posted April 6 Posted April 6 (edited) Hey, I don't have a bunch of friends, so, thought I'd come on here for some advice. I just turned 15 and, there's this girl I like, if not more in my third period... that I've never even talked to, hell, I don't even know her damn name! Also, I feel like it's more than just a crush, which, I know is really weird right now. So, some background: I just came to this high school, I'm a freshman, and I just finished my third week there. During my third period, there's this girl, (Who I'm pretty sure is a sophomore) and, dude... I don't know what to do. So, I don't know how much I can go into detail without exposing who she is, but, we'll push it. She has like, half and half hair, one half is a dark red that doesn't stand out that much, and the other half if a dark color, I don't remember if it was black or really dark brown. She has really light blue eyes, and, they're beautiful. She wears a vivid red lipstick and mascara, but, nothing else. So, it's enough to look good without trying that hard. She wears the same jeans (I think) every day, and, they're ripped on the knees, both legs. She wears just normal black boots, and one of two jackets, a letterman jacket, or a black hoodie. And, during PE, she sits in these assigned seats we have (for some reason), then immediately goes over to the corner where the bleachers and the wall meet, not the corner of the gym, and just... draws the whole time. Also, she seems pretty good at it, but, I've never been close enough to really tell. I've also never seen her talk to another person, ever. It's not a lonely thing, it's a loner thing I think, because there's a difference, between those two. Except the sub we had yesterday (She only said like, literally a sentence), and, I heard her voice for the first time, and it's soft and sweet, I love it. So, I kinda want some advice as to how I can talk to her. I tried leaving to "go to the bathroom" (She leaves PE 10 minutes early for some reason, I don't know why, but, she's not leaving school) and catching her in the halls, but, I folded, hard. I also saw her in the halls inbetween 4th and 5th (When I was walking past my 5th period class to walk with a friend) and, that's the FIRST time I've ever seen her in the halls, and, I had the best chance to talk to her, but I got nervous and folded again. The funny part about that is I was just about to tell my friend that I was walking with about her, and she just... appeared. She also has the same bus time as me, 3:00, but, I rarely ride the bus, and, there's so many people, I don't think I can talk to her there, and we don't have the same bus, just the same time. Sorry for yapping, I just really need advice because I've never really talked to a girl before, especially not one I've liked THIS much before even knowing her name, even though I've been in a couple "relationships" before (It's hard to say "relationships" before you can even drive, y'know?). So, please, help me out. And, if you can, please tell me how to start a conversation with her, thank you! Edited April 6 by asura089356
Gebidozo Posted April 6 Posted April 6 Just go over to her and say something like, “Hi! I’m sorry to bother you. I hope you don’t think me rude, but I noticed that you were sitting there and I think that you look beautiful and unlike anyone else I’ve ever seen. Would you like to go out for a coffee / lunch /dinner with me?” When talking to women, be honest, fully sincere, and genuinely nice. And you have to be direct and brave, unafraid of being rejected. Few things turn women off more than fear, insecurity, and insincerity. You can’t pretend, you have to be yourself. There are no tricks or some secret tips to that. Go and talk to her.
ShyViolet Posted April 6 Posted April 6 I think the drawing might be a way you could talk to her.... make a comment to her about her drawing and try to strike up a conversation from there?
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