True_Star Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 Ok people here's a case for ya been dating this guy for 5 months now , never once heard him say I love you or I miss you. I only hear him calling when he wants to do something on that evening dinner, movies etc.. We hardly have dates where it's just us two and when I questioned him about all the no calls and no " our time " he said he is like that with his past boyfriends and that he said there is no need to always call and that he see our relationship as a good friendship only with more love and caring. The only reason I am reconsidering our relationship again is that I have been ill and I did tell him yesterday and yet still no calls or texts to ask about my health. Ok so your opinons please ... does he really love me but keeps his emotions up his sleeve or is he just needing someone to bide the time till something else comes along? I mean I love him as much as I have ever loved anyone but is this relationship going anywhere?
RainyDayWoman Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 to you, this would be a relationship...to him, it's like friends with benefits. that's not fair. he can only treat you this way if you let it continue. don't. good luck. keep us posted.
whichwayisup Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 I agree, it's FWB. He seems to not want to be in a serious relationship. I'm sure he does care, maybe he's scared of getting close. Either way, you need to talk to him and find out HOW serious he feels about you and the relationship.
Lil Honey Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 he said he is like that with his past boyfriends That doesn't make it right. That could be the reason that the others are in his PAST. he said there is no need to always call He may not need it. Apparently, if you do, it's not an important detail. he see our relationship as a good friendship only with more love and caring. And there you have it. The only reason I am reconsidering our relationship again is that I have been ill and I did tell him yesterday and yet still no calls or texts to ask about my health. I think this is rude and uncaring. I would call a regular friend if I knew he/she was ill, so of course I'd call someone that I'm supposedly in a relationship with.
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