Ryan_B Posted April 6 Posted April 6 Hello! So I'm a 33 year old guy who has now been single for 5 and a half years. I was married and have two beautiful daughters but we weren't right for each other and the marriage came to an end. Since then, I've been trying to meet new people. I'm a fairly shy and quiet guy and have nothing going for me in the looks department! I've met a couple of girls over the last 4 years on dating apps, one of which I dated for a couple of months back in 2023. But over the last year and a half, I've not met anyone at all. Only ever matched with one person online (I'm on about 5 different apps!) in that time and after a couple of days messaging, she just seemed to disappear. I'm starting to think that I'm completely unlovable and undesirable and that my short lived marriage (we were together 7 years, married for 4 and the last 2 years of marriage were awful, I slept on the sofa and we barely looked at each other in that time) will be the only real experience of a relationship I'll ever have. I love my children to bits and without them I really don't know where I'd be, but this loneliness and feelings of being totally useless and worthless is really getting to me now. I went out for a few beers last night with a couple of friends, and seeing all the happy couples out and about, all loved up and enjoying theirselves with someone really got to me and just makes me feel horrible!
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