csfong007 Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 For the Guys: Do you tell your significant other that you love her often or do you hold back? Is it easy or difficult for you to tell her that you love her? For the Gals: Does your significant other tell you often that he loves you or do you hear it just once in a while? Do you wish he would tell you he loves you more often? Thanks for your help. C
barfool Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 With my last LTR he wouldn't tell me everyday. It didn't bother me at all because I was confident that he did, it didn't need it to be constantly confirmed. His everyday actions showed his love and that's enough for me.
flowergirl Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 My boyfriend mostly shows me he loves me with his actions, but he'll throw in an I love you sometimes just to affirm the feelings.
Darkwall Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 "I love you" were the most difficult words I have ever spoken. It was as if my tongue was literally in a knot when I was trying to say it. I just couldn't get them out. Thank the good lord he said it first. He should get a medal. How did he say it without exploding is beyond me. The point is... we said it together and we both knew we meant it. It was genuine. We can't go to sleep without saying it to one another. I can only remember a few times we didn't and probably because we didn't want to "wear off" the words. If we're both out with friends we have to at least call each other just to say good night and/or "i love you". It's important to express to each other your feelings, always. Not because you need reminders because you don't, but because it keeps the relationship alive. And it's nice to hear.
lilmoma1973 Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 Yes my h tells me he loves me but not as much as i would like him to...
Jtizzle Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 he only tells me when i say it first...we have been together for 5yrs almost 3yrs of it long distance cuz i moved to tx..but when we talk i would like for him to say it first to reassure me and let me know he means it..but if we are talking and i see hes upset i say it and sumtimes im met by silence:( ...i wish he would say it more...weve talked about it, but he STILL sees nothin wrong with me saying it first to him and him rarely saying it..
SmoochieFace Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 For the Guys: Do you tell your significant other that you love her often or do you hold back? Is it easy or difficult for you to tell her that you love her? Yes, I tell her often. More than once a day. It is easy to say it because my love for her is real and I am honest about my feelings for her. We are a bonded pair. Our hutch is filled with love, affection, and happiness.
whichwayisup Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 My husband and I say it everyday, alot of times. Those words will never tire in my ears...
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