ShyViolet Posted April 21 Posted April 21 6 hours ago, enterthevoid said: Great. It seems like this is working out really well, and I wish you both luck This thread is a perfect example of how just saying what's on your mind and asking for what you want just instantly solves confusion. Pages of debating about whether he's interested or not, or trying to read signals are now instantly gone, and you have a clear answer now. I disagree with this. A person's actions speak a lot louder than their words. If their actions have given you doubt, that's what you should really look at. Just because you ask someone a question and they give you an answer, that doesn't always mean much. A person can say they are interested in someone but not back it up with actions. She needs to see how things go over the next few weeks and see what his actions really show.
Alpacalia Posted April 22 Posted April 22 On 4/20/2025 at 7:39 AM, Gina2005 said: I have a question: If we've kissed, talked about our feelings, and are exclusively dating each other, does that mean we're already a couple? Or do we need some kind of official confirmation? I never had a formal conversation except for the times I was unsure if we were on the same page. In the instances where we didn't have the formal conversation we both exchanged verbal sentiments of our feelings for each other so we already knew that the other wasn't dating anyone else. But I don't see anything wrong with clarifying things either. It doesn’t have to be a heavy conversation—it can be lighthearted and affirming. You’re already acting like a couple. I think the "official" label often comes down to personal preference and communication styles. Some people thrive on the unspoken understanding (your actions are loud and clear!), while others—like your guy, who admitted he’s been unsure about your signals—might appreciate the clarity. 1
Author Gina2005 Posted April 22 Author Posted April 22 It's been a great couple of days since we kissed, our conversaciones are about new topics like, when I'm gonna meet his friends or how much we miss each other, even his voice sounds different, in a good way like, more soothing and sexy. It's a shame we cannot meet during the weekdays, but we already made plans for this saturday. 1
Author Gina2005 Posted April 23 Author Posted April 23 Hello everybody! Dinner with his friends this saturday. this is big right? his friends are three couples. 2
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