livingalife2009 Posted April 2 Posted April 2 I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 months. We have been exclusive since the beginning and we found out that we deleted our dating profile without discussing with each other. Everything has gone so well. We are both kind, loving, respectful and generous to each other. We both have good jobs and financially stable. We introduced each other to our children and we have spent time together with both sides of the family. I have been divorced for quite sometimes he’s been divorced for less than a year. I know I love and respect this man and I’m attracted to him. We see each other about 1-4 times each week. When he’s with me I feel so close to him and I can swallow all his love and attention but when he’s away from me, I hardly think about him. I can go all day long without texting him. Is this normal or a lack of enthusiasm on my part?
Gebidozo Posted April 3 Posted April 3 What I feel is not normal here is that you both introduced each other to your children and other family members after only 2 months of dating. That’s just insanely fast. People cannot know each other and fully trust each other after only 2 months of dating. You’re basically still almost strangers. Also, I think it’s way too early to call whatever you’re feeling at this stage “love”. After 2 years, yes, but after 2 months? That’s still early dating stage. Not to mention that your words about hardly thinking about him don’t fit together with your statement about loving him. When you love someone, you do think about that person when they aren’t around. Texting is a different issue, but it’s strange that you aren’t thinking about a person you supposedly love. The impression I have is that you guys rushed at a crazy speed, possibly lovebombed each other, and the inevitable emotional reaction is setting in now.
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