Brad Posted March 31 Posted March 31 (edited) Hi, my name is Brad. I was talking to this onlyfans girl and I thought she liked me as friends, but then she blocked me on facebook out of nowhere. I got a little carried away and created a fake account to ask her why? She blocked me again so I gave up. What I'm trying to ask is why would you say sure let's be friends then block you? It's like she was messing with me just for the fun of it!! It's not right and it's mean. I have to conclude that she's not all there right? [ ] Edited March 31 by a LoveShack.org Moderator removed transcript/privacy
Georgia46 Posted March 31 Posted March 31 Sadly, there’s lots of mean and weird people online. You gotta just brush it off and move on.
basil67 Posted March 31 Posted March 31 (edited) Without more information, I'm guessing that her definition of 'friends' was to be FB acquaintances, but you wanted an actual friendship. Thing is, she's a sex worker and as such, she's only going to give her time when you pay for it. And truth is, if she's blocked you - a paying customer - it's likely you pushed the her boundaries too far. Edited March 31 by basil67 2
Author Brad Posted March 31 Author Posted March 31 24 minutes ago, basil67 said: Without more information, I'm guessing that her definition of 'friends' was to be FB acquaintances, but you wanted an actual friendship. Thing is, she's a sex worker and as such, she's only going to give her time when you pay for it. And truth is, if she's blocked you - a paying customer - it's likely you pushed the her boundaries too far. She has no room to talk about boundaries though, look at what she does for a living. She's lucky any man will pay attention to her now.
basil67 Posted March 31 Posted March 31 3 minutes ago, Brad said: She has no room to talk about boundaries though, look at what she does for a living. She's lucky any man will pay attention to her now. She absolutely has the right to boundaries. Strong boundaries are essential for sex workers! Plenty of men will keep paying....you're not her only customer 1
ShyViolet Posted March 31 Posted March 31 7 minutes ago, Brad said: She has no room to talk about boundaries though, look at what she does for a living. She's lucky any man will pay attention to her now. What a disrespectful thing to say. Every human being has the right to have boundaries, regardless of whether you think their job is shady or immoral. If you think onlyfans is so low, what are you doing on there? 2 hours ago, Brad said: I got a little carried away and created a fake account to ask her why? She blocked me again so I gave up. This is a completely crazy thing to do. When someone blocks you, you leave them alone. You don't create another account to contact them again. 1
Gebidozo Posted April 1 Posted April 1 2 hours ago, Brad said: She has no room to talk about boundaries though, look at what she does for a living. First, every human being has the right to have boundaries. You’re being disrespectful. Second, ironically, a sex worker is someone who definitely needs to have boundaries and talk about them clearly. It’s a dangerous profession. There are all kinds of nasty people among clients. Third, you engage in her services and yet despise them? That’s the textbook definition of hypocrisy. 2 hours ago, Brad said: She's lucky any man will pay attention to her now. The more you think and talk like this, the more people are going to block you. 1
Author Brad Posted April 1 Author Posted April 1 I just don't get why she would block me in the first place when I didn't do anything to her personally since she said she would like to talk as friends. That's weird.
Gebidozo Posted April 1 Posted April 1 25 minutes ago, Brad said: I just don't get why she would block me in the first place when I didn't do anything to her personally since she said she would like to talk as friends. That's weird. Maybe she felt that you were thinking about her in contemptuous terms, as you have expressed above. Many woman have an excellent “sixth sense”, a kind of radar that helps the, to weed out people that disrespect them, those they wouldn’t want to communicate with.
basil67 Posted April 1 Posted April 1 44 minutes ago, Brad said: I just don't get why she would block me in the first place when I didn't do anything to her personally since she said she would like to talk as friends. That's weird. I once made a work friend who subsquently moved back home and wanted to stay in contact via FB. I was happy to do this until she kept pinging me each time she saw me online. Every time I logged on, there was another message! And we were only ever aquaintences....not BFFS. I blocked her just so I could get some peace. Did you message too much?
Author Brad Posted April 1 Author Posted April 1 3 hours ago, basil67 said: I once made a work friend who subsquently moved back home and wanted to stay in contact via FB. I was happy to do this until she kept pinging me each time she saw me online. Every time I logged on, there was another message! And we were only ever aquaintences....not BFFS. I blocked her just so I could get some peace. Did you message too much? Yea a little bit, but maybe you should give her another chance and unblock her? Maybe she's better now.
basil67 Posted April 1 Posted April 1 6 minutes ago, Brad said: Yea a little bit, but maybe you should give her another chance and unblock her? Maybe she's better now. I unblocked her a year or so later. Now we comment on each other's feeds, but we don't private message. I am happy with this. Re the bolded, you do admit that you messaged her too much. So what's with you saying that she's messing with you, is weird and 'not all there'? Do you understand that you were never going to be real friends? You were only ever going FB friends.....the kind who 'like' each other's posts. And given that you weren't real friends to start with, there's really no reason for her to refriend you. Find yourself another girl on OnlyFans. And this time, don't make the mistake of thinking that she's interested in anything other than earning money
Author Brad Posted April 1 Author Posted April 1 4 minutes ago, basil67 said: I unblocked her a year or so later. Now we comment on each other's feeds, but we don't private message. I am happy with this. Re the bolded, you do admit that you messaged her too much. So what's with you saying that she's messing with you, is weird and 'not all there'? Do you understand that you were never going to be real friends? You were only ever going FB friends.....the kind who 'like' each other's posts. And given that you weren't real friends to start with, there's really no reason for her to refriend you. Find yourself another girl on OnlyFans. And this time, don't make the mistake of thinking that she's interested in anything other than earning money She was messed with my emotions though and that's mean and not right. I think I got my revenge though.
basil67 Posted April 1 Posted April 1 Brad, you were a client who she was OK with having on her FB feed. Any emotional attachment you formed was your mistake I can't imagine that any petty revenge will have any impact on her
Author Brad Posted April 1 Author Posted April 1 29 minutes ago, basil67 said: Brad, you were a client who she was OK with having on her FB feed. Any emotional attachment you formed was your mistake I can't imagine that any petty revenge will have any impact on her Why would it be so wrong to date a onlyfans girl in real life? Is it taboo or something?
Author Brad Posted April 1 Author Posted April 1 1 minute ago, basil67 said: She doesn't want to date you, so it's a moot point Well I guess not since she screws multiple guys for money.
basil67 Posted April 1 Posted April 1 (edited) 2 hours ago, Brad said: Well I guess not since she screws multiple guys for money. Hey, her job wouldn't exist if guys like you didn't support it. You're two horses from the same stable, so you don't get to judge her. How about you go and meet real women and with a view to a real relationship? Edited April 1 by basil67 1
Author Brad Posted April 1 Author Posted April 1 I'm going to see a therapist, I have a consultation on Thursday.
Author Brad Posted April 1 Author Posted April 1 Do any of you guys know of any good mental health forums?
FredEire Posted April 1 Posted April 1 I'm not trying to be unkind here but you have to realise you're getting absolutely played here, and unfortunately it's created a massive industry where the likes of Andrew Tate prosper and unhappy desperate men pay the price. A sex worker throwing you a few scraps of attention and taking it away again isn't a relationship, it's in another galaxy to a relationship. She doesn't care about you, no woman on Only fans is going to care about you. You have to learn to meet and connect with a woman in the real world who could.
Author Brad Posted April 1 Author Posted April 1 I may pay to have sex with a real prostitute, heck maybe I can gain confidence about myself. At least I know it's strictly a money transaction.
SurfCity Posted April 1 Posted April 1 12 hours ago, Brad said: She was messed with my emotions though and that's mean and not right. I think I got my revenge though. You sound very dangerous, you need to know that.
Author Brad Posted April 1 Author Posted April 1 11 minutes ago, SurfCity said: You sound very dangerous, you need to know that. I'm not "dangerous" I'm just standing up for myself and not wanting to be taken advantage of.
Author Brad Posted April 1 Author Posted April 1 Of course, I'm the one that paid her in the first place, and I shouldn't have been stupid.
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