gfto Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 Tony, you have to hang tough! You're doing great so far! Keep in mind that this girl DUMPED you. That necessarily means she is not the perfect girl for you, regardless of your feelings for her. I respectfully disagree that you should ever take a phone call from this girl. You would just be setting yourself up for more heartache. Something else I want to stress that doesn't really get mentioned on this board: The reason she is calling you and will keep calling you is her EGO. Her romantic interest in you is gone, and it isn't coming back. But, she cannot believe that you just went silent! No guy has ever done that to her before. Every other guy she dumped probably groveled like a worm and begged her to come back. You just disappeared! And, she can't figure that out. That's why she's calling. It isn't because she's having second thoughts or anything like that. I know it sounds impossible, but you will meet a new girl who will completely take your mind off this girl!
pippen_2k Posted January 14, 2006 Posted January 14, 2006 GFTO is right Tony. Keep doing what your doing and dont answer that phone. Nothing she has to say to you is gonna make you feel better, only worse. Even tho she only lives a couple blocks away from you, you still can avoid her and not see her. Just dont put yourself in a situation to get seen.. It aint that hard. And is your phone/mobile really that important to you? Do you have to have it on for work reasons or any other significant reasons? If not just turn the f***er off for a few weeks, or get a new number. I know it sounds like a drastic overboard reaction but it will save u on alot of pain. Hope things turn out ok for ya... and remember she aint all that if she can rip ur heart out and make you feel like this.
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