wreck Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 I was on here a few months back when my partner left me and i had to move out, then after i did NC she got back in touch with me and i think it scared her a bit realising she wasn't going to see me, that was it etc etc so we started off slow and it went really well, i gave it everything i had and pretty much was treading on egg shells the whole time. We had a lovely christmas and new year....then out of the blue 2 days ago, she ends it! BY EMAIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm walking around in a daze, not really in reality at all, i would have some strength left if i thought there was any point in trying and the fact that i still love her is making me want too, but i just have no strength left knowing that this is over, for good over, i just can't comprehend this has happened again and this time for real..... I think the worst thing when a relationship ends is that you don't only loose your girlfriend/boyfriend but your partner your best friend that person you tell everything too that supports you that is there for you ......... just dont' know what to do with myself
CLEO Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 I Just broke up with my bf too.Well, i know i have to move on , so do you. dont think abt her... dont let it overwhelm you ... well... what i am doing to get over it is making my self busy. i went out with frens , almost everyday... i signed up for gym programme , which makes me go to gym at least 2 -3 times a week , listen to motivational speaker ,... invited my frens to my place... basically... i encourage my self n suround me with people who lift me up.i am getting better n better.... becoz of my frens support n family support... n God helps me too. So... dont give up.. there are still a lot of things u can do in life...
Author wreck Posted January 13, 2006 Author Posted January 13, 2006 Thanks Cleo, i'm also trying to do that, i've been meaning to getback to the gym for ages even though their prices have doubled, i'm trying to keep as busy as possible, this weekend has been the hardest ever i'm a complete mess and have totally let the pain over come me, doesn't help that she keeps texting me, everyone says it just takes time, well time takes too long and it's agony, just hope that i don't let this engulf me and can find the strength to get up again it's just so hard i feel like i'm in a daze not living not real not alive and unfortunately the only thing that would make me want too right now is her, again something else that will go in time but you know when you get dumpedand you still love that person, you don't want that feeling to go you don't want to have to stop loving them because you can't it'sjust so bloody hard x
Brittanyjean06 Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 It is an extremely difficult process one has to go through( especially if it was your first love-- witch was mine)--- sometimes when i open the door and stand outside- i feel like not in reality- so out of it.......the pain is soo surreal- i guess that what heartbreak does to you--- you see if you guys had broken up alot in the relationship- its hard to except this break up this time because your like" there gonna come back"".....i still believe that subcounsily but hes been with a new gf for 5 months and moved--- it is very hard- but take some of the advice up there i realize when i stay home , it just gets worse- and if i stay home from school- i feel even worse-- you really have to keep occupied-It's a scary feeling- people do have it worse than you, try to be thankful for what you do have- when your fears start popin up- be like" im not dead, im going to make it through this reamber- tough times don't last- tough people do
Toronto Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 Definitely try to stay busy. Being active and hitting the gym is a great idea! Poor all of your energy into physical activity and hopefully you'll be so tired at the end of the day that you'll be able to sleep the night through -- that's what I'm trying to do anyways. Anything to keep myself from waking up at 4:00am like I had been. I really miss him as my best friend too. I can get sex anywhere, but I can't just replace my best friend.
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