Rewing33 Posted March 28 Posted March 28 Hi. I’ve been married 14 years and everyday things about my wife are driving me crazy. For example the we commute together. She normally drives bc she gets car sick as a passenger. I had been doing this commute for about 10 years before she got her new job and we started going together. We both know that I know where I’m going. The other day she was tried and asked if I could drive. Of course. I don’t mind driving at all. The problem is she can’t just rest and let me drive. She needs to give opinions on everything and if my opinion is different then her’s she question why I do it differently then her. In this case our easy pass wasn’t working. She needed to construct a plan for getting home and if I questioned any of it I would get a lot “why questions”. This is true for driving, doing dishes, walking the dog, making coffee everything. If I get annoyed I’m being “defensive” Most of the time I don’t brother having an opinion anymore bc it’s just doesn’t seem worth it.
Georgia46 Posted March 28 Posted March 28 Ahhh after years with the same person I get that they sometimes get on your nerves… it’s understandable!
Els Posted April 1 Posted April 1 Just tell her that if she can't let you do it your way, you can sit back and let her do it instead?
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