superpump250 Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 My girlfriend and I have been together for awhile now and our sex life has always been amazing, because of how close we r to eachother. In her last relationship she was cheated on and she began to feel like she wasn't good enough, and recently she told me that as much as she loves making love to me she feels uncomfortable when we have sex. I told her that we would work on making her feel more comfortable together and that it might even bring us closer sexually. I love her more than anything and I really want her to feel comfortable around me sexually. I was wondering if anyone would have any ideas on how we might be able to work on this.
itwontdawnsooner Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 i would think with time she'd become more comfortable - unless youre doing something that specifically makes her uncomfortable (ask her), then its her baggage. you can help her if she asks for it, but only if she asks for it. if she doesnt, time will hopefully allow her to become more comfortable. always be considerate of her, if its amazing for you, make sure if theres something SHE wants you discuss that.
barfool Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 Yeah, you should ask her if there is anything you are doing that makes her feel uncomfortable, though there probably is not. You would think that during sex the mind would be completely concentrated on the act but for me it is not. All kinds of thoughts enter my mind which sometimes disrupt the good feelings I am experiencing. I have to make a conscious effort to lose myself in the sex and forget everything else. Maybe this is also her problem. This is something that only she can resolve.
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