PixelArt Posted March 23 Share Posted March 23 (edited) I met a new man at work around October. For a few months, we occasionally spoke, but there was a spark that hinted at something more. We have begun to hang out more and more lately. He’s very shy and has intense anxiety around women. Recently, we were at a coffee shop together, and I bent over to grab something. He got a good look at my chest accidentally since my blouse was low cut. He immediately turned away to the side and looked awkward. He did speak to me a couple of times after that, but was careful to maintain eye contact and stared intensely at my eyes. I’m not able to decide if this is just because he’s shy or it is now clear that he is not interested in a relationship? I sent him a random text yesterday and no response yet. Edited March 23 by PixelArt Spelling error Link to post Share on other sites
MsJayne Posted March 23 Share Posted March 23 (edited) Platonic means there's no sexual relationship, so yes, you have, or had, a platonic friendship. Him not ogling your chest doesn't mean he's uninterested, it means he's got manners. Not talking to you much after you gave him an eyeful across the cafe table suggests that he maybe thought you did it on purpose and it turned him off. Edited March 23 by MsJayne 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted March 23 Share Posted March 23 All that eye contact was him being anxious and really careful to not look at your chest again. Your flashing made him very uncomfortable Link to post Share on other sites
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