True_Star Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 Ok people here's a case for ya been dating this guy for 5 months now , never once heard him say I love you or I miss you. I only hear him calling when he wants to do something on that evening dinner, movies etc.. We hardly have dates where it's just us two and when I questioned him about all the no calls and no " our time " he said he is like that with his past boyfriends and that he said there is no need to always call and that he see our relationship as a good friendship only with more love and caring. The only reason I am reconsidering our relationship again is that I have been ill and I did tell him yesterday and yet still no calls or texts to ask about my health. Ok so your opinons please ... does he really love me but keeps his emotions up his sleeve or is he just needing someone to bide the time till something else comes along? I mean I love him as much as I have ever loved anyone but is this relationship going anywhere?
mel777 Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 I think you all ready know the answer if he loves you or not, but you're finding it hard to accept. Ask yourself instead if you're getting enough from this relationship. If the answer is yes then it doesn't matter how he feels about you. If it's no then it still doesn't matter how he feels about you, only how you feel about yourself and this relationship.
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