ikonik Posted March 21 Posted March 21 I just worked with this girl for a week at a museum. She seeemed nice and we got along well. yesterday it was our last day together and we wanted to go see one of the other parts of the mueseum, so on my break I went to meet her and we went. it was nice, she was very knowledegeable about what was going on and i didnt have a clue so she kept telling me what was going on. in the morning she suggested we go back to the museum after our project is over and i said yea i thinking of going anyways on my own. so i got her IG so we can set something up. but when i was going through her ig it looked she recently had/has a bf..not really sure if she's interested or just sees me as a friend.
glows Posted March 21 Posted March 21 You’ve already made plans so enjoy the day. Just be yourself and mindful of the fact that she may be with someone. She may mention her partner or bf or if you want to ask her out on a date just go for it. Her answer will tell you all you need to know. Is this some kind of short term temp work or ?
Author ikonik Posted March 21 Author Posted March 21 8 hours ago, glows said: You’ve already made plans so enjoy the day. Just be yourself and mindful of the fact that she may be with someone. She may mention her partner or bf or if you want to ask her out on a date just go for it. Her answer will tell you all you need to know. Is this some kind of short term temp work or ? Yea it was a temp job
Sony12 Posted March 21 Posted March 21 (edited) She has made indications that she would like to see you during her own personal time and so far she hasn't made the we are just friends comment to you yet. So go just go and be around her and see where it goes. You don't really know what the bf situation is with her. It might be an old on again off again thing. Who knows. If she seems interested in you go ahead and get to know her. If she's not interested in a physical relationship with you she will let you know. Edited March 21 by Sony12 1
smackie9 Posted March 23 Posted March 23 You go hang out with her again....then suggest dinner, but say "I would like to take you out for dinner". That obviously indicates a date and that you are interested in her...hopefully then you will get your answer.
Author ikonik Posted March 24 Author Posted March 24 (edited) 20 hours ago, smackie9 said: You go hang out with her again....then suggest dinner, but say "I would like to take you out for dinner". That obviously indicates a date and that you are interested in her...hopefully then you will get your answer. I messaged her on IG to set something up (not dinner just the museum hangout) and she hasn't responed in five days. Either she doesn't feel the need since it's so far out still or she's not interested...should i message her again? this would be the third time. Edited March 24 by ikonik
Sony12 Posted March 24 Posted March 24 (edited) 3 hours ago, ikonik said: I messaged her on IG to set something up (not dinner just the museum hangout) and she hasn't responed in five days. Either she doesn't feel the need since it's so far out still or she's not interested...should i message her again? this would be the third time. No if you have messaged her multiple times already and she hasn't yet responded don't send a third. Is Instagram how you two normally communicate. Do you have one another's phone numbers? Edited March 24 by Sony12
Author ikonik Posted March 24 Author Posted March 24 (edited) 4 minutes ago, Sony12 said: No if you have messaged her multiple times already and she hasn't yet responded don't send a third. Is Instagram how you two normally communicate. Do you have one another's phone numbers? No i have no way else of communicating with her, i don't have her number. i also turned on disappearing messages by accident when i messaged her first, but i turned it off immediately after. maybe she got weirded out by that? Edited March 24 by ikonik
Sony12 Posted March 24 Posted March 24 15 minutes ago, ikonik said: No i have no way else of communicating with her, i don't have her number. i also turned on disappearing messages by accident when i messaged her first, but i turned it off immediately after. maybe she got weirded out by that? If you two don't even have each other's real numbers there is a good chance she wasn't thinking too deeply about the time you were spending together.
smackie9 Posted March 28 Posted March 28 On 3/24/2025 at 5:45 AM, ikonik said: I messaged her on IG to set something up (not dinner just the museum hangout) and she hasn't responed in five days. Either she doesn't feel the need since it's so far out still or she's not interested...should i message her again? this would be the third time. No she's a loss cause.
Georgia46 Posted March 28 Posted March 28 On 3/24/2025 at 12:45 PM, ikonik said: I messaged her on IG to set something up (not dinner just the museum hangout) and she hasn't responed in five days. Either she doesn't feel the need since it's so far out still or she's not interested...should i message her again? this would be the third time. Has she seen or read your message about setting something up?
Author ikonik Posted March 28 Author Posted March 28 1 hour ago, Georgia46 said: Has she seen or read your message about setting something up? she saw the first one. i pretty much gave up on her, i'm 99% sure she has a bf.
Georgia46 Posted March 28 Posted March 28 33 minutes ago, ikonik said: she saw the first one. i pretty much gave up on her, i'm 99% sure she has a bf. Don’t give up just yet! You never know, people are busy!! Some people are useless on the phone!! id just wait and then if say there was no response in another few weeks and if not… ohhh well! you can’t win them all hugs 1
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